Why All My Friends Are Women (Or Men)

[Troy Spiral (13)]

Do you seem to have almost all friends of one gender or another? Myself I seem to have a lot of friends, who seem to have a majority of their "good" friends that are either all (or mostly) male or mostly female. Not really sure why that is.

[Msterbeau]

I get along fine with men but I do prefer the company of women most of the time. Suits my nature. (Both the flirty side and the emotional side.)

[Restless Oblivion]

Most of my friends are men - but unfortunately most of them want to be more than friends which sometimes puts a huge strain on the relationship, especially if they just can't take no for an answer. In general I seem to make more male friends - but again it's because I usually meet them as they are trying to hit on me. I would like to make more female friends, but as my male friends have often pointed out to me - apparently a lot of women find me intimidating LMAO!!!!! AS IF!

However, my closest friends are all women. I need to know that those who are closests to me don't have any ulterior motives lol

You can't beat a good girly night in with pyjamas and ice cream and a movie and slagging off men haha

[Head Wreck]

ulterior motives can be unsettling. that's why i don't go there unless invited.

i have a very small group of friends, their mostly male tbh. no perticular reason, just is

[Homicidalheathen]

most of my friends are men

we like the same things

act the same way

appreciate women

but are not catty bitches ourselves

low drama and maintenence

i get invited to bachelor parties as one of the guys all the time

[Guest Megalicious]

neither, what is this friend nonsense you speak of Troy?

On a serious note my friends are mostly male, just do to my interest.

My GOOD friends are a bit of a balance of both =)

[EAF (1)]

Mostly men, but a certain type of woman I get along ery well with as well. Guys are less drama and have always been there for me more on a lot of occassions.

[jynxxxedangel]

Most of my friends are men - but unfortunately most of them want to be more than friends which sometimes puts a huge strain on the relationship, especially if they just can't take no for an answer. In general I seem to make more male friends - but again it's because I usually meet them as they are trying to hit on me. I would like to make more female friends, but as my male friends have often pointed out to me - apparently a lot of women find me intimidating LMAO!!!!! AS IF!

I have the exact same issues, Restless.. *sighs*

The very few good female friends I have, I don't even need to use my entire hand to count them-- and they are also cursedly attractive, in one way or another.

Edited September 18, 2008 by jynxxxedangel

[Destroit]

Usually for me hanging out with most girls is like having teeth pulled and punched in the face after all slow motion stylie. The only thing I can think about being a good trait with women is that they always think everything I have to say is funny no matter what (OR they're being fake and just laughing to laugh...which is most likely the case, imo. Something I picked up from years of observing women trying to figure out how they work) and they always compliment everything I do/wear/etc, although I realize that most of that is probably also insincere.

I don't totally shove off girls, don't get me wrong I'm not prejudice against women I give them each a chance, but with that chance most of them tend to prove to me that they REALLY annoy me and come with too much extra whining and baggage.

It's needless for someone like me to say that I hang out with mostly guys...yes?

[phee]

ulterior motives can be unsettling. that's why i don't go there unless invited.

i have a very small group of friends, their mostly male tbh. no perticular reason, just is

With HeadWreck its a bit of a misnomer.... because most of his women also happen to be his friends...

[Simon Bar Sinister]

My closest friends are all female, but I just think it's been luck of the draw in my case. No slight meant toward my male buds, but my female friends are just better people.

[Troy Spiral (13)]

*ponders*

[Guest greyhalo]

Hmmm, I tend to have pretty equal amounts of both.

[JaneDead]

i have many different groups of friends, that don't seem to cross over, so it depends on which group i am with.

in MY main core group i have more guy friends. i just seem to like them better than the women i know. they are easy going, easy to talk to, get along with, we have similar interests. some of the girls i know are just freakin crazy and i have no interest in getting close to them. they are loud or high maintenance or just all over the place. things that matter to them don't matter to me. and i have a hard time connecting with women who aren't grounded in any way shape or form. i used to think it was just women in general i felt this way about but now i know it is the women *I* know.

in another group it is my guy friend and he has a lot of female friends. so we tend to hang out with about 3 guys on average and then the rest all chicks. which is fine because i happen to like that group of women a lot. they are all very different and all very down to earth. they are fun and they are not all girly and annoying.

as far as who i am "close" to- i have an equal split of being close to a couple of females and a couple of males. but as i go further down the list to my "who i'm closest to after that" it gets to be more men than women.

and it has been this way since i was child.

[Guest greyhalo]

I used to have more male friends growing up, esp. in high school. I think I just had some bad experiences with female friends and was leary of getting too close to them. I felt like I could trust men better. But, over time I have established some wonderful, lasting friendships with women. I like having a nice balance of male and female friends.

[JaneDead]

I asked one of my friends why she hung out with mostly men and her response was "women are smarter, but they are fucking out of their minds most of the time".

i would agree on that. however i don't think women are "smarter" i think they just have more common sense on SOME things. men seem to be clueless about things that women are not.

i happen to know some rather intelligent men so i can't say i believe women are smarter.

[JaneDead]

I used to have more male friends growing up, esp. in high school. I think I just had some bad experiences with female friends and was leary of getting too close to them. I felt like I could trust men better. But, over time I have established some wonderful, lasting friendships with women. I like having a nice balance of male and female friends.

that could be part of why i feel that way as well. i have had issues with female friends from grade school and high school and after that men were just easier to get alone with and trust. i do have a couple of female friends that are the absolute best though.

[Head Wreck]

With HeadWreck its a bit of a misnomer.... because most of his women also happen to be his friends...

deprends over there or over here.

over there it tends to be an even mix.

over here. it is mostly men, the same ones who used to help me build hides and go looking for bunkers in the forest as a kid (there are a lot)