candyman Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 Meh, I have friends with benefits for now. I think that Cupid was trying to hit me with the hail today...but that crappy conditions and impending classes kept us from talking long enough... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oh_My_Goth Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 hawt o.O Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest greyhalo Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 People need to be more proactive instead of complaining and acting like victims. Sure, everyone has relationship and dating issues--that's life. But, keep trying. Eventually someone will come along who is worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Msterbeau Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 I have chaos. Chaos and doom. :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shade Everdark Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 People need to be more proactive instead of complaining and acting like victims. Sure, everyone has relationship and dating issues--that's life. But, keep trying. Eventually someone will come along who is worth it. Or who is rich and stupid! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice Queen (1) Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 People need to be more proactive instead of complaining and acting like victims. Sure, everyone has relationship and dating issues--that's life. But, keep trying. Eventually someone will come along who is worth it. Thank you Greyhalo. Being "I'm so depressed because I'm single" really drives them away. Really. You can be very happily single, but with an eye open It's not that I don't get the wanting a relationship part, I get it. I just don't get the whole misery when single part. When you are happy in your life, it shows, and people will be drawn to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raev Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 Thank you Greyhalo. Being "I'm so depressed because I'm single" really drives them away. Really. You can be very happily single, but with an eye open It's not that I don't get the wanting a relationship part, I get it. I just don't get the whole misery when single part. When you are happy in your life, it shows, and people will be drawn to you. Icy, you show that once again - you are wise beyond your few years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shade Everdark Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 Thank you Greyhalo. Being "I'm so depressed because I'm single" really drives them away. Really. You can be very happily single, but with an eye open It's not that I don't get the wanting a relationship part, I get it. I just don't get the whole misery when single part. When you are happy in your life, it shows, and people will be drawn to you. Is THAT why everyone sidles away from me when I approach? Here I thought it was simply because I smelled bad.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice Queen (1) Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 (edited) Is THAT why everyone sidles away from me when I approach? Here I thought it was simply because I smelled bad.... Well, if you would stop smoking, you'd smell a lot better Edited April 22, 2009 by Ice Queen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGimp Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 sooooo cupid may have struck me with an arrow but problem is...iam stuck in the same boat as Miss.Mcgee and shes 2 hours away ugh figures Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TitsMcGee Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 sooooo cupid may have struck me with an arrow but problem is...iam stuck in the same boat as Miss.Mcgee and shes 2 hours away ugh figures Believe me if she's worth it, you can make the long distance thing work. It takes time and effort, but in the end it does pay off. Even though Charles and I are so far apart, it just makes our time together that much more special. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TygerLili Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 People need to be more proactive instead of complaining and acting like victims. Sure, everyone has relationship and dating issues--that's life. But, keep trying. Eventually someone will come along who is worth it. *nods* People also need to take it slow and allow a real relationship to develop, rather than cling to the first person who shows them attention for more than 5 minutes. The people who announce after having known someone for only a few days that he or she is their new boyfriend or girlfriend drive me nuts. Especially since those people seem to average about 2.5 "boyfriends" or "girlfriends" per month. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slogo Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 *nods* People also need to take it slow and allow a real relationship to develop, rather than cling to the first person who shows them attention for more than 5 minutes. The people who announce after having known someone for only a few days that he or she is their new boyfriend or girlfriend drive me nuts. Especially since those people seem to average about 2.5 "boyfriends" or "girlfriends" per month. Though about 8 years ago I met a girl and we started going out 2 days later. That relationship lasted 2.5 years Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TygerLili Posted April 22, 2009 Report Share Posted April 22, 2009 (edited) Though about 8 years ago I met a girl and we started going out 2 days later. That relationship lasted 2.5 years That's cool. "Going out" and being in a "relationship" are two different things, though. Pretty much the minute I met Morbid I knew we were going to end up being a couple. We still took it slow, though. There's really no need to establish a commitment in the first couple weeks. Edited April 22, 2009 by TygerLili Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest greyhalo Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 That's cool. "Going out" and being in a "relationship" are two different things, though. Pretty much the minute I met Morbid I knew we were going to end up being a couple. We still took it slow, though. There's really no need to establish a commitment in the first couple weeks. +1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothkytten (2) Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 *nods* People also need to take it slow and allow a real relationship to develop, rather than cling to the first person who shows them attention for more than 5 minutes. The people who announce after having known someone for only a few days that he or she is their new boyfriend or girlfriend drive me nuts. Especially since those people seem to average about 2.5 "boyfriends" or "girlfriends" per month. so true. i also see that so many people are after to many differnt people each day. if they are serious about wanting a relationship. they need to tone it down. stop hitting on everyone! people tend to not take them serious. just someone out to get some. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shade Everdark Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 Well, if you would stop smoking, you'd smell a lot better Yes, but then I wouldn't look as good. (It wasn't what got me started, heh, but I've actually been told, surprise of surprises, by two different people that I looked sexy when I smoked). So, you see, it's a delicate balancing act. Maybe I just need to smoke in a bubble? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torn asunder Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 Yes, but then I wouldn't look as good. (It wasn't what got me started, heh, but I've actually been told, surprise of surprises, by two different people that I looked sexy when I smoked). So, you see, it's a delicate balancing act. Maybe I just need to smoke in a bubble? candy cigarettes!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
candyman Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 so true.i also see that so many people are after to many differnt people each day. if they are serious about wanting a relationship. they need to tone it down. stop hitting on everyone! people tend to not take them serious. just someone out to get some. So...what is happening is that all the serious guys are meeting the not so serious girls...and all the serious girls are meeting the not so serious guys? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Constantin Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 good guys fall for bad girls and good girls fall for bad guys. cant we just be men and women Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coed_doll Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 I will be wearing a sign around my neck at the VegFest... "single and available" One can only hope.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothkytten (2) Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 So...what is happening is that all the serious guys are meeting the not so serious girls...and all the serious girls are meeting the not so serious guys? thats what i see. i maybe wrong, but i just see it that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Constantin Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 I will be wearing a sign around my neck at the VegFest... "single and available" One can only hope.... what is vegfest? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torn asunder Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 So...what is happening is that all the serious guys are meeting the not so serious girls...and all the serious girls are meeting the not so serious guys? nobody wants the one who looks good on paper - they want excitement, chemistry... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGimp Posted April 23, 2009 Report Share Posted April 23, 2009 Believe me if she's worth it, you can make the long distance thing work. It takes time and effort, but in the end it does pay off. Even though Charles and I are so far apart, it just makes our time together that much more special. i sure hope so she seems worth it so far shes real sweet very pretty she just lives Lapeer thats all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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