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To Taystee, about the women being assholes.

That's true.

I believe I'm an asshole because its hard for me to settle for a hardcore relationship. So when I get into one...and then break up with the guy out of the blue (in his opinion), I'm the asshole.

So. Yep.

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Okay.. so.. here's the thing.. i don't think I have posted in this thread before, or if I did, I don't remember... but:

me and my man are looking for a female to add to our bedroom escapades.. (the first post in the topic mentioned a "fuck buddy".) We aren't ready to add anything more than that to our duo... but more fun would be nice... :)

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To Taystee, about the women being assholes.

That's true.

I believe I'm an asshole because its hard for me to settle for a hardcore relationship. So when I get into one...and then break up with the guy out of the blue (in his opinion), I'm the asshole.

So. Yep.

No, being afraid to commit, especially at your age and level of experience, is NOT asshole-ish. It's expected. It's normal. It's even smart.

What I'm talking about is flat out using people, intentionally making them feel bad about themselves, using physical violence or humiliation to coerce them to do your bidding. I can't really imagine you doing that.

You are in the clear, even if people get hurt sometimes. That's part of the territory of love.

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No, being afraid to commit, especially at your age and level of experience, is NOT asshole-ish. It's expected. It's normal. It's even smart.

What I'm talking about is flat out using people, intentionally making them feel bad about themselves, using physical violence or humiliation to coerce them to do your bidding. I can't really imagine you doing that.

You are in the clear, even if people get hurt sometimes. That's part of the territory of love.

Mm...yeah. That's true.

I would never intentionally hurt anyone. Even if they would think otherwise.

Thanks, Taystee.

:kiss

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Finally made a listy-list.

PHYSICAL:

Height - Taller than me [not hard, i'm only 5'0] :p

Weight - Not very overweight, but not a stick figure either.

Tattoos - definitely a +

Piercings - doesn't matter either way.

Eye color - color doesn't matter but i do like nice eyes. ;x

Hair color - I like dark haired men, most of the time.

Ethnicity - olive complexions = :wub: {but im open}

Preferably someone in my age-ballpark.

PERSONALITY:

Good sense of humor is a must.

Not afraid to be childish/impish at appropriate times!

Social/Open to new experiences.

Easygoing.

Communiticative but not whiney.

{more when i think of more.}

THINGS I WON'T DEAL WITH:

Bad hygiene.

Arrogance.

Rudeness.

JEALOUSY ISSUES.

Smothering.

Stupidity.

Thats a first to see that I fit just about all those categories lol.

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Okay.. so.. here's the thing.. i don't think I have posted in this thread before, or if I did, I don't remember... but:

me and my man are looking for a female to add to our bedroom escapades.. (the first post in the topic mentioned a "fuck buddy".) We aren't ready to add anything more than that to our duo... but more fun would be nice... :)

NO, NO, NO!

I am NOT helping couples...I am NOT helping :pimp s...NO ONE helped us find a third...EVER..(doubt someone will)...GO FIND IT YOURSELF!

(With ALL due respect, & whatnot.....)

Pheramoans...your on Doll...

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aww, sweetie.. :p

but I wasn't posting for help, i was posting so that ppl knew we were available... how will someone know we are looking if we don't put it out there...

(sorry if I have offended anyone... it didn't say, "no couples allowed" :p )

and no offense taken, hun. :)

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I believe good guys exist.

You just have to look in the right areas.

I agree. I think people need to look outside of the "goth scene" and club scene to meet potential partners. I like going to clubs to dance, socialize, and people-watch--but definitely not with the intention of meeting someone special.

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By the way, Rev. wanted me to bring up the sushi thing again. So, who wants to meet for sushi? Or, do I have to personally invite single people?

(Again, I'm just in this for the food...)

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I agree. I think people need to look outside of the "goth scene" and club scene to meet potential partners. I like going to clubs to dance, socialize, and people-watch--but definitely not with the intention of meeting someone special.

Sista' knows some ZEN....

"always with an open eye...I look for nothing"
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NO, NO, NO!

I am NOT helping couples...I am NOT helping :pimp s...NO ONE helped us find a third...EVER..(doubt someone will)...GO FIND IT YOURSELF!

(With ALL due respect, & whatnot.....)

Pheramoans...your on Doll...

Maybe that should be another thread? Swingers/Couples looking for playthings? :p

And i agree! No :pimp ! We don't need to be helping those that can help themselves. *bangs gavel*

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*bangs gavel*

SOMETHIN' NEEDED TO GET BANGED IN THIS THREAD!!! :shock:

...&....I don't think ANOTHER thread is needed for that...

..if you can't add up the posts & send a PM...don't try to live like that...

...& there are SEVERAL threads around that WILL tell you JUST who is into what...if you can find them... ;)

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SOMETHIN' NEEDED TO GET BANGED IN THIS THREAD!!! :shock:

...&....I don't think ANOTHER thread is needed for that...

..if you can't add up the posts & send a PM...don't try to live like that...

...& there are SEVERAL threads around that WILL tell you JUST who is into what...if you can find them... ;)

True. And it may just devolve into another sushi orgy anyway ;)

*goes looking for said threads* :hrhr::whistle:

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Sushi alone :ralph: ...& I even tryed the stuff...but the peoples there had NO HONOR...

...they fed me the fish when I said I did not want the raw fish... :rant:

I like sushi.

Its just...sex and sweat and other bodily fluids...plus sushi (even the kind without raw fish)...it sounds gross.

I can see somebody getting wasabi in their eye or somewhere else painful and then ruining the entire mood. :laugh:

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