Looking for a Mistress

[MyOwnSavior]

i'm a male submissive looking to find a Mistress. Its been over two years since my last Mistress and have tried other bdsm sites online and have continued to strike out. It can be so hard to find one who is real or in many cases that is interested. i'm a very sensative and obediant sub that needs not just a firm hand, but to be held and a tender touch knowing that i'm cared for. i'm very openminded, willing to try new things, and have a wide variety of experience already under my belt. i believe in trying anything at least once, if not two or three times, just to give them a fair chance before deciding if its something for me. i've been getting more and more into cross-dressing for over a year now and is becoming a big part of who i am as both a submissive and as a person in general.

i welcome any questions and will always do my best to provide an answer.

[TheGimp]

www.collarme.com

BDSM personals

[Nienna]

I personally am only dominant over other females, preferring dominance in my male companions. Sooo... sorry. But good luck!

[MyOwnSavior]

www.collarme.com

BDSM personals

been on that site for about 3 years now and have never had any luck other then cam girls trying to get me to join other sites.

[jynxxxedangel]

What sort of relationship are you looking to pursue? A "moving in with your prospective Mistress, being financially kept, and forming a life partnership" arrangement-- or a "deep friendship/trust/understanding/strictly-business/scratch an itch" sort of arrangement? Any Domme who reads this thread, and is in a position to consider your proposal, will be curious as to what level of servitude you are willing to achieve.

What are your talents and attributes as a slave? Why should a Mistress choose you as her own-- and what can you do to please her? Would you agree to be bound to a Mistress who owns other slaves, or would you be jealous and petty in such a situation?

If you are a true submissive, you have no shame, and you know it is your duty to answer every question a Lady asks.

[prick]

Im Dominant but not a chick or into dudes but I know of many. I will check around.

[MyOwnSavior]

What sort of relationship are you looking to pursue? A "moving in with your prospective Mistress, being financially kept, and forming a life partnership" arrangement-- or a "deep friendship/trust/understanding/strictly-business/scratch an itch" sort of arrangement? Any Domme who reads this thread, and is in a position to consider your proposal, will be curious as to what level of servitude you are willing to achieve.

What are your talents and attributes as a slave? Why should a Mistress choose you as her own-- and what can you do to please her? Would you agree to be bound to a Mistress who owns other slaves, or would you be jealous and petty in such a situation?

If you are a true submissive, you have no shame, and you know it is your duty to answer every question a Lady asks.

Moving in would be a perfect end in my eyes one day, but exactly sure about the being financially kept. Cooking, cleaning, making coffee, etc. are all things i've been known to do in the past and always willing to do again. i'm a bit of a pain slut, and am always looking to learn new things that i can do to improve to better serve, and i do surrender all of myself to be used in any way She may want. As far as other slaves go its not that i'd have an issue if there were others i'd rather not at first.

[pomba gira]

Don't know anyone who's looking right offhand, but I'll keep an eye out.

[MyOwnSavior]

thankyou prick and pomba gira, i can always use the added help looking

[aequorea]

For those of you who are reading and may be interested...

Chad (myownsavior) is sweet and patient and the most truly submissive individual I have ever met. He is tolerant and obedient and... *ahem* ...very talented. He is genuine, thoughtful, attentive, and caring. He's also a good friend and lots of fun to shop with!

Good luck in your search sweetheart!

[MyOwnSavior]

For those of you who are reading and may be interested...

Chad (myownsavior) is sweet and patient and the most truly submissive individual I have ever met. He is tolerant and obedient and... *ahem* ...very talented. He is genuine, thoughtful, attentive, and caring. He's also a good friend and lots of fun to shop with!

Good luck in your search sweetheart!

*blushes*

[Eevee]

Aww!

I'll keep an eye out for you!

As opposed to my pictures from the DGN photoshoot...I'm rather submissive. Sorry.

[Ice Queen (1)]

Kinkyspace.com

ALT.com

Bondage.com

Socialkink.com

As the wise Jynxxxed said, you must be clear with what you are looking for. There are many that are looking for a bf/gf type relationship in which the female is dominant. Others are truly looking to serve and understand their place. Personally, other things that would matter to me would be: location and having your own transportation. You are no good to me if I want something from you and have to wait extended periods of time because you are too far, or you cannot get to me, because you have no transportation. Employment? I need to know when you are unavailable due to employment, which is the only excusable reason to not be available to at a moments notice.

I will be moving in several weeks to the Southfield area. I will be looking for one or more submissives to serve me at that time. I will be posting a list of requirements, contact instructions, and details at a later date. You would be wise to keep your eyes open for that.

[TheGimp]

iam in the same boat Savior iam sure she'll come along sooner or later

[SpidersMoment]

I would like to consider myself a Mistress, but i already found my sub. But any doms i know who are looking i will think of you.

btw, jynxxxedangel....i love you...

[Tacohitts]

In my own opinion,you would have better luck in other civilized countries than here in this one.

but good luck.

[jynxxxedangel]

I would like to consider myself a Mistress, but i already found my sub. But any doms i know who are looking i will think of you.

btw, jynxxxedangel....i love you...

I've been a Domme/watersports nurse/roleplay/fetish model on and off (in the business sense, of course) for about 10 years, now. B&D only, as I'm not into the S&M thing. I'm very careful when choosing this sort clientele these days, as I'm not a lifestyler. Many of the clients I've seen have been men in positions of authority. It seems a lot of control freaks relish the feeling of being controlled, deep down in their secret gardens.

Although I am not seriously into the lifestyle, I know my way around it-- and I am always keen to give my point of view concerning such matters.

[SpidersMoment]

hehehe which is why i love you....smart women who know there way around are a HUGE plus in my book.

[MyOwnSavior]

Kinkyspace.com

ALT.com

Bondage.com

Socialkink.com

As the wise Jynxxxed said, you must be clear with what you are looking for. There are many that are looking for a bf/gf type relationship in which the female is dominant. Others are truly looking to serve and understand their place. Personally, other things that would matter to me would be: location and having your own transportation. You are no good to me if I want something from you and have to wait extended periods of time because you are too far, or you cannot get to me, because you have no transportation. Employment? I need to know when you are unavailable due to employment, which is the only excusable reason to not be available to at a moments notice.

I will be moving in several weeks to the Southfield area. I will be looking for one or more submissives to serve me at that time. I will be posting a list of requirements, contact instructions, and details at a later date. You would be wise to keep your eyes open for that.

i will be sure to keep my eyes open then. i work from 2pm-10pm, Monday-Friday, but for the next few weeks i have Fridays off.

[Nerdcore]

have you tryed www.fetlife.com??

I like it there..

[MyOwnSavior]

have you tryed www.fetlife.com??

I like it there..

the only site i've tried is collarme.com

[MyOwnSavior]

i'd just like to thank everyone again that has stopped in with advise and places for me to try.

[Ice Queen (1)]

i'd just like to thank everyone again that has stopped in with advise and places for me to try.

Don't forget to go to lifestyle events and parties.

I think there is another Hellbound coming up at the end of February. It looks like there may be some upcoming performances in March that you might want to check out as well. There are also regularly occurring parties if you are in the know. There is more, so much more. The more things you go to and people you meet, the more things you will find out about.

[MyOwnSavior]

Don't forget to go to lifestyle events and parties.

I think there is another Hellbound coming up at the end of February. It looks like there may be some upcoming performances in March that you might want to check out as well. There are also regularly occurring parties if you are in the know. There is more, so much more. The more things you go to and people you meet, the more things you will find out about.

will be sure to keep my eyes open

[SpidersMoment]

damnit, this shit always happens when my friends either move away, or just disappear......