The Bane of Being 'One of the Guys'

[Punky]

I can honestly say that I have been on both sides of this. I have been "one of the guys" as you put it. Just hanging out and playing video games and then having someone's PMSing girlfriend come in and totally pitch a bitch about my existence. I have been in the same situation where I felt the need to hit on my friend's new girlfriends caused by a fear of losing a good guy friends. I agree with you that is sucks. Especially when you do not even particulary like said girlfriend.

I always try to remind myself about this when I am someones girlfriends and they are hanging out with other girls. However, due to the fact that multiple past boyfriends of mine have cheated on me with girls that i had percervied as being "just one of the guys" I am always questioning in the back of my mind weither something might happen or not.