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Oh my Lord, every month at this time I go insane in the membrane, sometimes I gotta call of work..that's how I figured the pattern....like clockwork...I need something to stop the emotional bullshit. I don't like feeling weak. BC pills no, prozac no, I'll find a natural way.

*hugs* :(

In ancient roman times they fixed this problem with natural troy time.

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Why the fuck do I keep getting hurt? No matter what I do it seems like everything always ends up the same way. Nothing ever goes perfectly, I understand that. So why do I keep getting in these fucked up situations? Do I open my heart too easily? I thought I kept a pretty tight watch on it, but every fucking time I let my guard down, someone, somehow, shits all over it. Every relationship I've been in ended in me getting hurt, except one. Only one time in my life have I ever left someone that didn't hurt me first. I don't know if I can ever trust anyone again. The biggest scar was left by my soon to be ex wife. 5 years of marriage. Seemed happy, at least I thought we were. Then one day, poof. She doesn't want anything to do with me or our son anymore.

A year and a half later.. A year and a half I won't soon forget. A year and a half of hell. I meet someone else, let her in my heart. Then some fucked up shit happened, and here I am, hurting again. This one is sort of my fault. Sort of. But she made decisions she could have made differently.

I just want to know how someone can do something they know is hurting the one they supposedly "love"? How can they just go through life doing this to people? Even when the one they "love" has said that their actions are hurting said person.. How can they just keep doing it, like it's no big deal?

And then, to make things worse, how can someone just talk about their actions, that they know is hurting the person, like talking about going to the store? Just casual, like, (for example) let's say your best friend stole your wallet from you. Came over to your house, told you they stole your wallet, and expects things to just be normal. That's a pretty shabby example of what I'm really talking about here, but bear with me.

If this person supposedly loves the person they say they love, how can they continue on to hurt them? And when they are asked to stop, they come up with excuses, sentences that always start with "I". "Me". "My".

Am I wasting my time here or what? I love this person, but with all I've been through, I don't know if I can trust her. Am I crazy for wanting to stick with someone, if they keep hurting me?

Will she stop hurting me? Yes, I'm sure. Will she hurt me again? I don't know. I want to believe that she won't, but the way I've seen, what she's put other people through, who's to say she won't do the same to me? The story goes way deeper and there are many, many dirty details. I won't hijack this thread, but I could really use some input. I just don't know what to do anymore.

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Why the fuck do I keep getting hurt...I won't hijack this thread, but I could really use some input. I just don't know what to do anymore.

I'm not sure if my words will be of any consolation, but when it comes to dating and determining if someone is right for you, my family goes old school. Introductions, courting, chaperoned outings. I mean, heck, you're not even supposed to kiss until the third date (regardless of age).

However, after you have determined that a certain person is right for you, the next thing is to come clean with everything if you are looking for a committed relationship. If someone is just looking for a bed bunny, then they will get just that - sex with no substance. But if you are looking for something long term, it is a MUST that both parties are on the same page and open to compromise, which may include stepping outside of one's comfort zone, but not losing one's integrity.

If you are feeling you are looking at a long standing relationship, this must be a mutual thing. If you are serious about something important to you regarding the type of relationship you are looking for and the other person dodges the subject...that's a red flag. It doesn't necessarily mean that there is no chemistry there, if this is a true relationship, it may indicate that this is something the two of you need to be together on before moving forward.

Moving too hastily may cause one to overlook signs that disaster is straight ahead (and possibly around the corner) and you may be doomed to repeat yourself. However, taking your time to truly get to know someone inside and out, likes and dislikes, good and bad habits doesn't mean it has to take you a lifetime to finally be together, it just means to meet on that common ground, first, to create a solid foundation and then literally grow from there.

I've been known to write novels so I'll edit here. Just remember: be true, give trust and expect no less than what you put in. The happiness should outweigh the woe.

I hope some of this helps a little...

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Oh my god I know I am a bleeding heart but this dude I am talking to online claims he is looking for a relationship, he is in NYC, he wants to get married because his wife died while having there second child both her and the baby died and he has a ten year old son...dude so many guys (and woman) lie to get what they want and manipulate but to lie about the death of a child, I don't know that's sick...I feel horrible for this guy but am suspicious, either way I feel sorry for him..if he is honest that's so terrible, I can feel his pain, but if he's lying I feel sorry for him because he is clearly insane.

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Oh my god I know I am a bleeding heart but this dude I am talking to online claims he is looking for a relationship, he is in NYC, he wants to get married because his wife died while having there second child both her and the baby died and he has a ten year old son...dude so many guys (and woman) lie to get what they want and manipulate but to lie about the death of a child, I don't know that's sick...I feel horrible for this guy but am suspicious, either way I feel sorry for him..if he is honest that's so terrible, I can feel his pain, but if he's lying I feel sorry for him because he is clearly insane.

Ahhh, the plot just thickened...

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If you are injured or have been in an auto accident and your doctor tells you the insurance company will stop paying for your injuries if you don't start getting better, run. The doctor is a quack or using you to improve their practice's patient recovery track record.

Lol, at first I thought you were going to pitch a commercial for an injury attorney :hrhr:

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