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So when does havin coffee with a Guy mean he can get pissed and ask me who I am with and question me about it.....

When he somehow gets the apparent mistaken impression , that he has a chance at getting with you, and if you didn't communicate to him, and inform him that it was just coffee and nothing more, and he continues to think whatever he might be thinking, and you turn around and decide to be a little less then truthful with him about your plans for the evening, that he may have wanted to be a part of ? Perhaps ? Just saying.....

I'm not the said "Guy" by the way....

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if you didn't have an interest in him, shouldn't have gone for coffee.. guys usually only have one goal in mind (sex and/or relationship) if they ask a girl out for coffee, hell i never asked a girl out for coffee that i didn't want to get with in one way or another.. just saying, it may help you not get signals crossed next time.

Personally, I'm thinking of kicking my fucking Wii down the god damn street since kicking it against a wall only improved it slightly.

(Heh, nintendo consols, fuckin electronic TANKS!)

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When he somehow gets the apparent mistaken impression , that he has a chance at getting with you, and if you didn't communicate to him, and inform him that it was just coffee and nothing more, and he continues to think whatever he might be thinking, and you turn around and decide to be a little less then truthful with him about your plans for the evening, that he may have wanted to be a part of ? Perhaps ? Just saying.....

I'm not the said "Guy" by the way....

Yeah, I told him I was I was with my friend Michelle earlier today and that I was going out later but I told him he was a friend I referred to him as a friend, ya know. I never had plans with the guy at all for the weekend and we talked to each other earlier today and I told him I was going out tonight because he asked if I had plans. This guys like hangs with porn chics and thinks he can go out with girls that are 20 years younger than him. He tried to kiss me I pushed him away, sorry tmi...I find him to be kinda pig like.

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Yeah, I told him I was I was with my friend Michelle earlier today and that I was going out later but I told him he was a friend I referred to him as a friend, ya know. I never had plans with the guy at all for the weekend and we talked to each other earlier today and I told him I was going out tonight because he asked if I had plans. This guys like hangs with porn chics and thinks he can go out with girls that are 20 years younger than him. He tried to kiss me I pushed him away, sorry tmi...I find him to be kinda pig like.

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if you didn't have an interest in him, shouldn't have gone for coffee.. guys usually only have one goal in mind (sex and/or relationship) if they ask a girl out for coffee, hell i never asked a girl out for coffee that i didn't want to get with in one way or another.. just saying, it may help you not get signals crossed next time.

Personally, I'm thinking of kicking my fucking Wii down the god damn street since kicking it against a wall only improved it slightly.

(Heh, nintendo consols, fuckin electronic TANKS!)

So, what if the guy is a co-worker? I don't think men always think about this stuff. females do the A.D.I.D.A.S thing too. However, I am really shitty at stereotyping people, I actually pride myself on NOT doing this thing....I know, I know, I should be more judgmental...I suck.

Yeah right:)

Anyway, I am thinking of this song in relation to the current presidential candidates:

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So, what if the guy is a co-worker? I don't think men always think about this stuff. females do the A.D.I.D.A.S thing too. However, I am really shitty at stereotyping people, I actually pride myself on NOT doing this thing....I know, I know, I should be more judgmental...I suck.

Yeah right:)

No it is good that you try not to be so judgemental. However a peice of wisdom I've learned is keep your professional life seperate from your personal life. It may sound like a dick move, but more often than not, I've learned the hard way that most people fucking suck, even if you consider them a friend, and they very well could get worked up over something petty, then the next day at work, they already got the rumor mill at maximum productivity over your actions at the bar/club/wherever you hung out with them the night prior. The fact that he wanted coffee with you despite working with you and being 20 years older are two red flags that would validate your decision to deny any out of work environment interactions. Egh, I feel like captain hindsight in this, maybe I'm preaching to the choir in this. Just food for thought really.

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