What Are You Thinking?

[Michael8402]

I'm not an epic fail when it comes to love, I know what the hell the issue was and will never be again. I do not need a man in my life to be complete. There is only one person for me in this world anyway, for anyone and unfortunately most people will never be found. I quit, actually I quit than he showed up at the what seemed like right time.. Right time, wrong one.

Just remember that a relationship isn't about needing someone.  A true relationship is 2 people growing as individuals beside each other.  You both need to be excepting and supportive of one another and even include the other person where you can.  We are all individuals and we all have some sort of baggage, just find the person who's baggage matches your's.

[creatureofthenyte]

I have gas

 

 

 

 

 

in my car.

[kat (1)]

Just remember that a relationship isn't about needing someone.  A true relationship is 2 people growing as individuals beside each other.  You both need to be excepting and supportive of one another and even include the other person where you can.  We are all individuals and we all have some sort of baggage, just find the person who's baggage matches your's.

I used to believe that

IIt just hurTS to know that people like to see you cry

[Michael8402]

I used to believe that

IIt just hurTS to know that people like to see you cry

 Then you don't need that person.  They aren't understanding or supportive.  Someone else will be.

[kat (1)]

 Then you don't need that person.  They aren't understanding or supportive.  Someone else will be.

thank yOu fOR the kind words

[TronRP]

I think I'm about to become Guardian/Foster Parent to my niece and nephew.  Wow, isn't life interesting...since (thanks to the courts) they are currently my little sister and brother...

[Trene4000]

Somebody had a lot of time on their hands.

http://science.howstuffworks.com/science-vs-myth/strange-creatures/10-reasons-zombies-are-physically-impossible.htm

Zombies? Really? 

[TronRP]

I didn't know, I just really didn't know

[Trene4000]

I can't post?

[Trene4000]

Of course it works now.

[Trene4000]

I pour my heart out in a long and winding text but it refused to post. I do stuff like this and there it is. Of course. 

[TronRP]

I'm beginning to see that I was the blind one.

[kat (1)]

Thinking is not a good idea for me right now.

[kat (1)]

This was deep inside something I wanted but I didn't want this to happen, he lied about what he was about, he was simply a adolescent like in a grown up body that went to the extent of asking me fucking marry him, I mean pretending to love someone is bad enough but to say you want to actually "do life" with that person, like he was all about this when he was getting what he wanted, I never met someone so desperate for sex!!!! All he wanted and he went to extreme measures to get it. Now, I am here stuck with apart of him and he is just free to roam and forget that he has created something...I feel so bad for women who have dealt with guys like this, they say shit to get in..they love you, you are there soulmate, they find things to pretend that there is a connection spiritually. I could feel a flakey vibe from him, why am I only now starting to get signs and trust my foresight, a little too late.. I should be crying but I can't, it's bittersweet. I know that I will find the answers inside. I'm not afraid.

[Trene4000]

I spent my childhood being bullied and teased. I learned to develop a border that I do not allow anyone to cross. It makes me appear strong or unfeeling at times but I would rather people fear me rather than use me as a door mat or garbage bag. I have learned to protect myself. Others ask how I don't let myself be pushed around. I tell them my secrets and leave them to it. Success is entirely up to them. I've seen two people succeed. The trick to it is to never back down. No matter what way they come at you, readjust and build a new wall as quickly as possible. Don't get me wrong, it is possible to remain bright and friendly, just erect a barrier that you refuse to allow certain things to pass through. Feel like you're being used? Just say no. Don't give explanations or any discussions about it. Just leave it at that. No. Anything else and the person will keep pressuring you believing they can make you change your mind. This will leave both sides angry and frustrated. Unfortunately, this will also leave you open to the same topic again. 

You don't have to become cold and heartless. That is not the way to live. You will eventually become miserable, mean, and crotchety. Just make up your mind about what you will or won't allow and stick to that. If you must say something DO NOT dissect and overly explain your decision. Keep it to the point and as brief as possible. This is used only when speaking to an authority figure such as your boss. 

Well, that's my advice. Good luck. 

[Trene4000]

Pain hurts! 

[kat (1)]

She's not a coffee fan....mah belly hurts every time I take a drink..damn it, am I allowed to even do coffee? It's been 12 year's!

Edited July 9, 2015 by kat

[kat (1)]

Back up... He said he didn't come back because of the circumstances but...

[kat (1)]

People should sometimes listen to what their heart says, right..

[Trene4000]

We are all radioactive. What really sucks is that several weeks ago I was fussing about this, yelling at the TV about how much radiation the governments have spewed into our environment.

http://www.abc.net.au/science/articles/2015/06/23/4259590.htm

I'm shocked by the rest. 

[Trene4000]

People should sometimes listen to what their heart says, right..

I listen to my gut. GOD knows exactly how to get my attention. 

Yeah... I'm a little hard headed.

[TronRP]

I spent my childhood being bullied and teased. I learned to develop a border that I do not allow anyone to cross. It makes me appear strong or unfeeling at times but I would rather people fear me rather than use me as a door mat or garbage bag. I have learned to protect myself. Others ask how I don't let myself be pushed around. I tell them my secrets and leave them to it. Success is entirely up to them. I've seen two people succeed. The trick to it is to never back down. No matter what way they come at you, readjust and build a new wall as quickly as possible. Don't get me wrong, it is possible to remain bright and friendly, just erect a barrier that you refuse to allow certain things to pass through. Feel like you're being used? Just say no. Don't give explanations or any discussions about it. Just leave it at that. No. Anything else and the person will keep pressuring you believing they can make you change your mind. This will leave both sides angry and frustrated. Unfortunately, this will also leave you open to the same topic again. 

You don't have to become cold and heartless. That is not the way to live. You will eventually become miserable, mean, and crotchety. Just make up your mind about what you will or won't allow and stick to that. If you must say something DO NOT dissect and overly explain your decision. Keep it to the point and as brief as possible. This is used only when speaking to an authority figure such as your boss. 

Well, that's my advice. Good luck. 

[Trene4000]

I've noticed that as I've gotten older, I have very little tolerance for drawn out drama and battle sequences. I just want them get to the point already.

[TronRP]

Dang I overslept with my nap. Now I will have to do the bank, CVS and store run tomorrow morning.

[creatureofthenyte]

yup