sglgothmom Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 I'm not sure if this is the right forum but considering the circumstances i think it is. As some of you may know, i just broke up with my boyfriend of almose four years. he's an abusive drunk that i thought would change and of course he didn't as the years went on he got worse. because of his drunk stupidity i've lost most of my friends and i didn't go out much. In fact just recently i started comming back on the board and posting. i even saw some of you this past Saturday night at city club. I'm not planning on going to a over the top out of control drunk and this upsets him. So much in fact that this past sunday night my sglgothmom account on here was hacked (partly my fault the password was to easy). All of my personnal information on my profile and all pm's are now erased which make me think that he has sent some private messages to people on the board. if he has i apologize and i'm documenting everything so that i can go downtown and file for a personnal protection order againest him because seriously this all has got to stop. He made my life a living hell while we were together and now that we are apart he's still messing with me. I finally gained control of my account on here again this morning and just wanted to let everyone know what had happened. i apologize again for anything he may of said to offend anyone and if you still have the p.m.'s in your box if you could send them to me i would appreciate it so i have some documentation of this hack although i don't beilieve the police can do much about it. thanks again katie sglgothmom AGAIN !!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rev.Reverence Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 ...sux...I hope your dharma (essentially luck) flow arights itself... Be well, & Blessed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sglgothmom Posted June 12, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 It's all good this is the only account he still had the password to because i didn't think to change it. i haven't been on here in so long and monday morning when i tried to log on i couldn't Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunhee Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 Good luck, hope things work out well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bean Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 That's terrible - hope things get better for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jynxxxedangel Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 Please be careful. He knows about this forum, and he can still read anything you write, dear. Make sure not to post which events you may be attending, and such. Someone that crazy might very easily take it one step further, and begin physically following you. I suspect that two of my exes check up on me here, and there is really nothing I can do about it. I hope they have enjoyed reading about how happy I am, with my new husband. Both of them deserve to feel the screws turning, for being so bloody feckin' nosy. P.S. It would be very easy for you to figure out if he's posted under your ID. Simply go to your profile page, and click the "options" button underneath your photo. A small menu will drop down, giving the option to view all of your posts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sglgothmom Posted June 12, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 thanks guys however he hasn't posted anything however he erased my private messages so i don't knwo if he sent any of them. like i said i'm not to worried i'm going to file a personnal protection order. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rev.Reverence Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 jynxxxedangel said: Please be careful. He knows about this forum, and he can still read anything you write, dear. Make sure not to post which events you may be attending, and such. Someone that crazy might very easily take it one step further, and begin physically following you. I suspect that two of my exes check up on me here, and there is really nothing I can do about it. I hope they have enjoyed reading about how happy I am, with my new husband. Both of them deserve to feel the screws turning, for being so bloody feckin' nosy. P.S. It would be very easy for you to figure out if he's posted under your ID. Simply go to your profile page, and click the "options" button underneath your photo. A small menu will drop down, giving the option to view all of your posts. Sister, you ARE beautiful when you are angry! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prick Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 You still need to say hi to me at the club. I like making new friends and Im a sweety. Just ask anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enishi Posted June 13, 2009 Report Share Posted June 13, 2009 *Hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dragonluv Posted June 13, 2009 Report Share Posted June 13, 2009 (edited) Greetings, I know I don't know you. If I may, if you need help with the personal protection order or other things, here are some places that can help you. For Oakland County: Haven http://www.haven-oakland.org/ For Macomb County: http://www.turningpointinc.com/ For Other Countys: http://www.michigan.gov/som/0,1607,7-192-2...-2884--,00.html I wish you the best of luck. Blessed Be/Take Care, april Edited June 13, 2009 by dragonluv Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sglgothmom Posted July 6, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 6, 2009 so, it has just been brought to my attention that my ex was not the one that hacked my account on here. I have been told it was his 'buddy' that did it. my ex has quit drinking and been trying to talk with me and has been making an effort to try and change his life for the better. however someone on the board here told him all about my posting and he was extremely upset that i would think he would do this and so therefore he asked me to clear his name on this website so i am. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destroit Posted July 6, 2009 Report Share Posted July 6, 2009 (edited) jynxxxedangel said: Please be careful. He knows about this forum, and he can still read anything you write, dear. Make sure not to post which events you may be attending, and such. Someone that crazy might very easily take it one step further, and begin physically following you. I suspect that two of my exes check up on me here, and there is really nothing I can do about it. I hope they have enjoyed reading about how happy I am, with my new husband. Both of them deserve to feel the screws turning, for being so bloody feckin' nosy. P.S. It would be very easy for you to figure out if he's posted under your ID. Simply go to your profile page, and click the "options" button underneath your photo. A small menu will drop down, giving the option to view all of your posts. There is nothing I love more in this world than making miserable pathetic people more miserable and pathetic upon hearing about my joy, so I know the feeling. Sglgothmom - Good luck with this psycho! You can guarantee that any event I personally attend with my posse...NOBODY would follow you and fuck with you, I'm a beastly woman who would see to it personally . Edited July 6, 2009 by Chernobyl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destroit Posted July 6, 2009 Report Share Posted July 6, 2009 sglgothmom said: so, it has just been brought to my attention that my ex was not the one that hacked my account on here. I have been told it was his 'buddy' that did it. my ex has quit drinking and been trying to talk with me and has been making an effort to try and change his life for the better. however someone on the board here told him all about my posting and he was extremely upset that i would think he would do this and so therefore he asked me to clear his name on this website so i am. Well that's great! I scratch my last post entirely! Very happy that he turned out not to be the psycho you thought he was. Understandable why you jumped to the conclusion that it was him, I mean, what other logical answer was there? And at least you're big enough to come back and clear it up . Very good for your ex also for staying clean and sober, I have an ex who was a severe alcoholic while we were dating, but has since been totally clean and it's WONDERFUL to see him that way, I'm very proud of him for being so strong because many of us didn't know if he was going to pull through honestly. So good luck to his sobriety and hope you can still come to DGN Camping! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azeuron Posted July 6, 2009 Report Share Posted July 6, 2009 sglgothmom said: so, it has just been brought to my attention that my ex was not the one that hacked my account on here. I have been told it was his 'buddy' that did it. my ex has quit drinking and been trying to talk with me and has been making an effort to try and change his life for the better. however someone on the board here told him all about my posting and he was extremely upset that i would think he would do this and so therefore he asked me to clear his name on this website so i am. even if it was his "buddy"... he would have had to get the login information somewhere... so he may not be directly at fault... but it still sounds like he had a hand in it... unless i'm reading something incorrectly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sglgothmom Posted July 6, 2009 Author Report Share Posted July 6, 2009 yeah i know and my ex had my login id so... but oh well he has apologized so i guess there is nothing more i can do about it except just be more careful about my passwords Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azeuron Posted July 6, 2009 Report Share Posted July 6, 2009 sglgothmom said: yeah i know and my ex had my login id so... but oh well he has apologized so i guess there is nothing more i can do about it except just be more careful about my passwords true... glad you're not being naive about it though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jynxxxedangel Posted July 6, 2009 Report Share Posted July 6, 2009 I'm also curious-- Why would this guy's "buddy" be hacking your account? It just doesn't sound right. Drama, drama. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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