me & my dad again

[vampireprincess]

wat do i do...? my dad has been pushing me away again... we started talking and hanging out but now he like,,, wte and he dosent want anything to do with me,,,, he treats me like shit.,,, he dosent even talk to me,,, anymore... am a daddy girl.... we were doing good for a month or so.. i think its hes girlfriend,,, am so sick of her getting in the way of me and my dad realtioship...he can replace her he cant replace me:( i dont think he can..:( but he hasnt called me in forever & i probally wont ven c him on my bday:( im so sick of getting hurt by him :( we got over the pregreant thing and now i dont kno wat i did.. i graduated and shit but i dont kno wat i did wrong :(

[AstralCrux]

In some cases, most with your situation that I've run across, there isn't much you can do. You haven't done anything wrong- it's how he is and he'll be that way in the future if you allow it. If he starts acting like a douche, cut time with him out until he figures it out. If he doesn't keep up the relationship with you, I recommend giving up on it.

Personally, I've been through wasted family relationships before, and I'm happy that I've cut out an entirely cancerous portion of my family from my life. They're all drug addicts and abusive people at this point. I'm grateful that I had the stregnth to do it then.

[Oh_My_Goth]

Quit talking to him all together.. If he misses you then he will come to you.

You shouldn't beat yourself up over it.. He may be your Dad, but he sounds like a real douche, & nobody needs that shit in their life.

[vampireprincess]

In some cases, most with your situation that I've run across, there isn't much you can do. You haven't done anything wrong- it's how he is and he'll be that way in the future if you allow it. If he starts acting like a douche, cut time with him out until he figures it out. If he doesn't keep up the relationship with you, I recommend giving up on it.

Personally, I've been through wasted family relationships before, and I'm happy that I've cut out an entirely cancerous portion of my family from my life. They're all drug addicts and abusive people at this point. I'm grateful that I had the stregnth to do it then.

yea i kno i just need to give it time.. biut i dont want to i love mydad... my mom is abussive so... i got nobody... but my sister im a daddys girl.. i should just give him space maybe he will come around & love me again

[dragonluv]

I can image that would hurt. I as well think you need to distance yourself. He is your dad but he not act like a dad. A good daddy loves there daughter regardless. I think it great that you vent your concerns. If I may, hugs.

[AstralCrux]

yea i kno i just need to give it time.. biut i dont want to i love mydad... my mom is abussive so... i got nobody... but my sister im a daddys girl.. i should just give him space maybe he will come around & love me again

My parents were the same way. If you wanna talk, just hit me up. If it makes you feel any better... I worked really hard to get somewhere in my life and end up in at least lower middle class with my own house. You could be mostly happily sucessful! Family in my opinion should be considered no more highly than friends, because either can hurt you.

[Homicidalheathen]

distance makes the heart grow fonder...or at least you forget the crap enough to be civil