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Guest Megalicious

Nothing. There is no use in regret, it serves no purpose for me. I can only self reflect, which is something a bit different, and base my future choices on experiences that I have had - good or bad.

To regret choices I have made, things I have done and things I have shared, would be to regret me and well, I love me the way I am. :) These choices and experiences have helped shaped who and what I am, and though sometimes it was extremely hard, it just made me that much stronger and independent.

I have no regrets.

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I'm kind of on the same vein as Megs. I don't truly regret anything because it got me where I am today.

Me 3.

My thinking on this is, once I say something, I can't take it back.

Once I do something, I can't undo it.

I can apologize (if necessary).

Feeling regretful after the fact is quite pointless.

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The most important regret is one of wasting time. If one wastes time on things that do not make one happy, contribute to the good of mankind or one’s spiritual growth…say…sitting around drinking as opposed to writing a piece of music….day after day…that’s a waste of life to me.

Emotions too…don’t waste time on feeling bad. You know that feeling you get of coming regret…it's your soul crying out for you to change so you don’t waste time.

Take for example my brother. I wasted time trying to have a relationship with someone I really have no connection with other than blood. On top of all the crap he also takes what you say and uses it against you later.

So, besides the time wasted I was mad for a couple months whenever I thought of it…that’s like 3x a day….that’s a huge regret of a loss of time and energy to me.

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Getting involved with people who should never have gotten into my life in the first place...I know it made me who I am but they made parts of me I hate as well...

thankfully most have served as some sort of learning experiance.

I don't regret people, but there are people I won't forgive.

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  • 2 weeks later...

I regret not spending more time with my dad before he got sick.

The day before his brain surgery, I went to the hospital to visit with him because he wanted to see me. But, I behaved terribly and got into everything and annoyed him so much that he finally asked my mom to take me home because he couldn't take it any more. I was ten, but I was such a brat.

He had his surgery, and he's like a completely different person. So, I never really got to spend much time with my dad before he "changed" and it kills me to this day. =(

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