Big Girls

[Destroit]

Not to be full of excuses but maybe people don't have time to worry about being "healthy" and maybe they have bigger shit to think about like problems. Maybe they are poor and can't afford to buy healthy foods (which could be a fault of their own laziness, but that's a whole other story), etc.

Ehhh...I find time. I'm one of the most financially poor people on the board (albeit, not "unstable" as in I don't have outrageous credit card amounts, but I live paycheck to paycheck). I make for trying to be thin because I've been both ends of the spectrum, thin and svelte and relatively obese (I was 220 at one point and I'm 5'9", now I'm 180, which is only considered overweight) and I would do ANYTHING to get thin again because, aside from it being my visual preference (we all have different preferences) you just FEEL SO GOOD all the time. It's like walking around and constantly orgasming...THAT good. Overeating, as I am a BIG over-eater, makes you feel sluggish and gross and want to sleep and lay around a lot. But in this day and age NOBODY is too poor to buy healthy foods...it's called a Bridge Card and I have one. The one major bill I have a month that I make sure I pay is my gym bill as I would be spiralled into a deep depression without exercise (that is actually also proven by clinical studies, people who get exercise feel better, have less depression, better self-attitude, sleep more soundly and have a cleaner bill of health). I dunno a little caffeine a day is not as bad on your heart as carrying around a bunch of extra weight, but as someone whose vice used to be food, I understand how hard it can be refusing seconds . I struggle with weight myself and no I didn't used to care about the health factor before I lost all of my weight but now I can't help but ignore it because it FEEL SOOOOOO NICE to be thin .

I'm just speaking of all of this not aesthetically but physically, attitude, health-wise, etc.

Edited December 2, 2009 by Chernobyl

[Rev.Reverence]

Actually, being vegetarian doesn't mean you're healthy, actually many vegetarians are malnourished.

True-dat...

Most of the girls I have dated have been bigger than me and I had no problems with it...although with me being 5'11" and 140lbs. it doesn't take much.

I would also like to ask what "big" is here...is it the same as fat? I mean I consider fat to be the point where you don't give a shit and people should be repulsed by you. I am not going to chase after someone that is going to ignore me until that entire cake is gone. I will also not consider everyone "pretty" or "good looking" because they are alive. I believe that I am allowed to have my own limits and I will proudly claim that even as a guy not all boobs turn me on...especially if I can confuse them with VW Beetles...

I'm with Candy on this one!

[Rev.Reverence]

...oh, you CAN be a vegetarian & still be flat out obese...no, I haven't the figures on exactly how much beer & beans that it takes to get so.....also, if one's diet is cheeseburgers, & one simply quits eating meat, they will not necessarily change shape nor size.

..the key, is finding a balance (hence the term 'balanced breakfast')...

[candyman]

...oh, you CAN be a vegetarian & still be flat out obese...no, I haven't the figures on exactly how much beer & beans that it takes to get so.....also, if one's diet is cheeseburgers, & one simply quits eating meat, they will not necessarily change shape nor size.

..the key, is finding a balance (hence the term 'balanced breakfast')...

I will volunteer for the Beer & Bean diet...but I need to ask if cigarettes are allowed...

[AmieLamie]

Rawrrr.

This can be moved to Relationships, one of the powerful ones must do this for me.

[CatsEyeOfTheWiccan]

BBW are yummy..

-CatsEye

[Simon Bar Sinister]

The Big Girls video, click here.

that link didn't work; in case you're curious, here's the clip Aime was referring to:

...and yeah, this should still get moved to Relationships.

Edited December 21, 2009 by SpammerOvTheGods