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someone who gives a fuck about me & what I think.

someone who realizes men and women are both human, and not perfect.

someone who doesn't bash men just because they can.

someone who is intelligent, employed, emotionally stable(non-psycho).

I'm not really looking to get involved with anyone currently, but I offer my 2 cents nonetheless.

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the eternal Newbie

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This is my attempt to understand the mind of men be honest i truely dont give a fuck but i wana know the truth no matter how ugly . . .

You seem like an intelligent person, so I am begging you, PLEASE, use the spell check button

(the blue check mark in the upper right hand corner)

Guys may talk about about boobs and ass, but we all want intelligent people we can relate to.

The quote above had 10 errors. I corrected them below, highlighting the corrections.

"This is my attempt to understand the mind of men. Be honest. I truly

don't give a fuck, but I wanna know the truth, no matter how ugly . . ."

I'm not a total grammar Nazi, which I found out by reading the grammar Nazi thread.

The people in that thread talk using college-level sentence structure terminology,

and I had no idea what the hell they were talking about.

That's not me. I'm more of a stickler for the stuff my sixth grade teacher would have flunked me on.

Proper punctuation, spelling, and capitalization.

Doing this immediately makes you appear more intelligent, and intelligence is sexy.

If I can make any kind of overarching point, it is this.

Not every man wants the same thing, but you attract what you advertise.

In your profile you state "...But I am way to bright"

That's a message to others.

It's a message that you are a smart woman,

and therefore you are seeking other smart people to interact with.

That's great!

Except, you used the wrong "to", It would be "But I am way too bright"

So, for me, the whole message of intelligence was completely contradicted by the misuse of the word "to"

in your 6-word proclamation.

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From the clothes you wear,

to the type of makeup you have on,

or lack thereof,

to the way you act,

to the types of views you espouse in conversation and writing,

to EVEN the way you write,

you are sending a message out to others as to who you are, and who you'd like to attract.

KNOW THAT

USE THAT

Although different men are looking for different kinds of women, everyone seems to like someone who says with their actions-----

"I know who I am and I am confident of me and I am not too fucked up.

And if I am fucked up, I own my mental illness, because that's me."

Know yourself.

Own who you are (not some fake style you think people will like)

And then reflect that to others.

DO THIS, and you'll attract the people you seek.

That's my advice...

That and use spell check and proper punctuation. :p

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torn asunder Enthusiast

torn asunder

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In your profile you state "...But I am way to bright"

That's a message to others.

It's a message that you a smart woman,

and therefore you are seeking other smart people to interact with.

Kind of hate to do it, E, but you may want to proof-read your posts to make sure that you're using proper grammar when correcting another's! :wink

=P

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TheGimp Newbie

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i think Ron White said it best "i want a intelligent woman...you can always get her breasts done or a nose job done later down the road or fix her beauty if she wants it.....you cant fix stupid there's no surgery for that..."

and i agree with this...honesty, intelligence, understanding, unconditional love for one another, I'm sure there's more I'm missing

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Enishi Newbie

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The things I want:

Kindness and Respect

Little Drama (this harkens back to the respect part).

Don't act superficial. High school is supposed to end at the age of eighteen.

Don't try to constantly change me. Quite frankly, if a guy lets himself become henpecked and changes himself TOO much, his partner will lose respect for him, even if he does exactly what she asked him to do.

Intelligence and depth of character. She needn't have the same interests or beliefs, but being able to understand each other in regards to our interests and experiences is very important.

We should be able to talk to each other for hours on end without getting bored.

A healthy, attractive body.

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