the_fairy_gothmother Posted January 23, 2010 Report Share Posted January 23, 2010 (edited) Well I am a BBW. Until I lose the weight I have to find the limited selection of gothic attire available to me. Even my favourite store Torrid really has become more mundane recently. Their selection at the moment is not making me happy. Anyways I wanna hear your thoughts and see your photos. Fashion tips, stores, ideas, maybe a clothings exchange for gothic gals who are losing weight , gaining weight and wanna swap clothes because when you go to Sally Army(salvation army) you notice there is not much of a selection of used goth gear especially for the larger lady. So please appreciate, admire and share anything on this subject of Big Beautiful Goths! Edited January 24, 2010 by the_fairy_gothmother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Homicidalheathen Posted January 23, 2010 Report Share Posted January 23, 2010 I love your outfit in the pic! Where did you get this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the_fairy_gothmother Posted January 24, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 24, 2010 (edited) I love your outfit in the pic! Where did you get this? I got it from Torrid. Thats old like 3-4 years. I am in need of a ardrobe upgrade. Edited January 24, 2010 by the_fairy_gothmother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annona Synclair Posted January 24, 2010 Report Share Posted January 24, 2010 You and I both.... I just had a kid, so my figure has changed, once again. It IS very hard to find things. My biggest problem ~ chest, hips, and thighs. Though I've found that designing my own clothes helps me get EXACTLY what I want. ^_^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dragonluv Posted January 24, 2010 Report Share Posted January 24, 2010 I agree with Homicidal. I love that outfit as well. Nice car as well. Great idea for post! I am a big gal. I have no problems with being a big gal. I do my best, to stay healthy with my curves. Oblivious, I am not health nut. My Gothic clothes are none. When I do go to City Club, which is rare, I just wear my normal black clothes. I am introvert that really need to work on get out more. So , I have no suggestions to where find clothes or give clothes. Sorry, I could not be more of help. Take Care. If I may, hugs, april Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the_fairy_gothmother Posted January 24, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 24, 2010 (edited) I agree with Homicidal. I love that outfit as well. Nice car as well. Great idea for post! I am a big gal. I have no problems with being a big gal. I do my best, to stay healthy with my curves. Oblivious, I am not health nut. My Gothic clothes are none. When I do go to City Club, which is rare, I just wear my normal black clothes. I am introvert that really need to work on get out more. So , I have no suggestions to where find clothes or give clothes. Sorry, I could not be more of help. Take Care. If I may, hugs, april Thank you. Well designing your own is great but it can be just as expensive as buying designer even designer goth lol. Tripp costs quite a bit. but I hope this forum will be a great place for bbwgs andpeople who admire them to talk about it. I am glad being that the gothic community is more acceptable of whatever type of shape or zie color you are. Thats one thing I think that sets our community far above the rest is our acceptance of others. So I can relax and be myself.I also figured if people are gonna stare at me might as well give them more to stare at lol. Edited January 24, 2010 by the_fairy_gothmother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LulaLaRose Posted January 24, 2010 Report Share Posted January 24, 2010 I too am plus-sized. Have you checked out HolyClothing.com? They have a lot of beautiful clothes that are great for the plus-sized Goth lady. I have several of their items and love their stuff! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LulaLaRose Posted January 24, 2010 Report Share Posted January 24, 2010 I have also found some great Goth clothing on this site: Chic Star Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pomba gira Posted January 24, 2010 Report Share Posted January 24, 2010 I too am plus-sized. Have you checked out HolyClothing.com? They have a lot of beautiful clothes that are great for the plus-sized Goth lady. I have several of their items and love their stuff! HolyClothing= godlike. Gorgeous, well-made, comfortable clothes, reasonable prices, very responsive to their customer base. My current closet stats: five skirts, two dresses, five tops. One caveat- their skirts are LONG, and most have fancy hemline details so they have to be shortened from the waist. This one comes in a shitload of colors (like most HolyClothing pieces) and is only $23 in misses, $36 in plus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Homicidalheathen Posted January 24, 2010 Report Share Posted January 24, 2010 You and I both.... I just had a kid, so my figure has changed, once again. It IS very hard to find things. My biggest problem ~ chest, hips, and thighs. Though I've found that designing my own clothes helps me get EXACTLY what I want. ^_^ After pricing fabrics and decent thread at jo anns recently I have decided that with the work involved...it just isn't worth it...coarse I suck at sewing. I admire people who can create their own clothes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destroit Posted January 25, 2010 Report Share Posted January 25, 2010 After pricing fabrics and decent thread at jo anns recently I have decided that with the work involved...it just isn't worth it...coarse I suck at sewing. I admire people who can create their own clothes. Yes, I'm starting to dabble in making my own clothing again because nothing ever fits me right. I've found out that I'm not thin, not fat, not busty, not flat, not a girl, not a boy, not tall, not short...I'm shapes. Yes, shapes. Not sure what kind, but whatever kind I am they don't carry it anywhere . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pomba gira Posted January 25, 2010 Report Share Posted January 25, 2010 Yes, I'm starting to dabble in making my own clothing again because nothing ever fits me right. I've found out that I'm not thin, not fat, not busty, not flat, not a girl, not a boy, not tall, not short...I'm shapes. Yes, shapes. Not sure what kind, but whatever kind I am they don't carry it anywhere . LOL Cher is composed of geometric solids! Always wished I could sew. But not enough to actually get off my ass & learn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TitsMcGee Posted January 25, 2010 Report Share Posted January 25, 2010 When it comes to club wear, I make most of my stuff. My normal clothes I just buy because I am in no mood to learn how to make my own jeans. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oh_My_Goth Posted January 25, 2010 Report Share Posted January 25, 2010 (edited) Yes, I'm starting to dabble in making my own clothing again because nothing ever fits me right. I've found out that I'm not thin, not fat, not busty, not flat, not a girl, not a boy, not tall, not short...I'm shapes. Yes, shapes. Not sure what kind, but whatever kind I am they don't carry it anywhere . I hear ya.. Nothing fits Me right EVER.. I am very curvy & if something fits Me waist it does not fit my tits or hips and vice versa.. I can't even buy a standard corset.. I have to get it specially made I NEED a dress makers dummy!! I am not BBW.. But I would imagine it is more difficult at that point to find stuff cuz most Goth stuff is pretty standard sizes. Edited January 25, 2010 by Oh_My_Goth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Nocker Posted March 24, 2010 Report Share Posted March 24, 2010 *Not a troll post for the record* There is a big (no pun intended) difference between curvy and overweight. Overweight being the more common of the 2. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Head Wreck Posted March 25, 2010 Report Share Posted March 25, 2010 *Not a troll post for the record* There is a big (no pun intended) difference between curvy and overweight. Overweight being the more common of the 2. and how is this not a troll post? completely insensative and was not called for. DGN play nice rules apply to all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raev Posted March 25, 2010 Report Share Posted March 25, 2010 While his post has little to do with fashion-or anything at all to do with fashion, its at worst a sharing of an opinion. He isn't being insulting, not attacking anyone, just derailing a little. There is nothing wrong with having an opinion, even if its not a politically correct one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prick Posted March 25, 2010 Report Share Posted March 25, 2010 While his post has little to do with fashion-or anything at all to do with fashion, its at worst a sharing of an opinion. He isn't being insulting, not attacking anyone, just derailing a little. There is nothing wrong with having an opinion, even if its not a politically correct one. Well said my friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destroit Posted March 25, 2010 Report Share Posted March 25, 2010 While his post has little to do with fashion-or anything at all to do with fashion, its at worst a sharing of an opinion. He isn't being insulting, not attacking anyone, just derailing a little. There is nothing wrong with having an opinion, even if its not a politically correct one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damagedangel Posted March 25, 2010 Report Share Posted March 25, 2010 I don't think that he was in the wrong for posting it.. dude, I'm FAT. I'm not curvy.. I have some serious weight issues going on that I need to take care of, then maybe I can become curvy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TygerLili Posted March 25, 2010 Report Share Posted March 25, 2010 It's not a violation of the DGN rules, but it is a troll post. It's not about the original topic, no one in this thread referred to themselves as "curvy" except OMG, who is not plus-sized, and it was posted 2 months after the post before it. There was no point to that post other than to get people worked up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freydis Posted March 25, 2010 Report Share Posted March 25, 2010 It's not a violation of the DGN rules, but it is a troll post. It's not about the original topic, no one in this thread referred to themselves as "curvy" except OMG, who is not plus-sized, and it was posted 2 months after the post before it. There was no point to that post other than to get people worked up. +1 He has proved more than once, by going into more than one thread and saying something inflammatory just to provoke a reaction for his own entertainment. Seriously, dude. Remember what I said about not being the celtic Sluagh? Quit poking people cause you think its funny. Its not. Its old and tired and you're wasting time you could be using getting to know people. STOP IT. .....back on topic. Holyclothing.com does indeed rule. I have 2 dresses of theirs, and theyre gogreous, well made, and have very clear sizing info. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glory13666 Posted March 26, 2010 Report Share Posted March 26, 2010 Finding good Goth clothes can be quite a challenge for the larger woman. Thanks for the Holyclothing link, so far it looks promising. The internet is really great resource for eccentric clothing. However, your imagination is even better. Look for regular clothing that you can modify or accessorize yourself. I'm not big into sewing because I don't really like it, nor am I any good at it but I do simple modifications. I have a lot of ideas in my head that never come out due to a lack of time for that kind of thing but maybe one day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
asphyxian_doll Posted March 26, 2010 Report Share Posted March 26, 2010 (edited) I'm not FAT nor Curvy...>.> I'm what doctors would call obese, but then again, I've had people guess I weighed 150 without a doubt, and almost died from surprise to find out I weigh around 185-190...(could be less I dunno, I killed my scale) I"m doing a lot to lose weight, and I'm succeeding... But I'd really like to fit into clothing that I don't want to have to wait for months to enjoy. Torrid is too big, Hot Topic is too small. I'm about to go crazy! Edited March 26, 2010 by asphyxian_doll Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raev Posted March 26, 2010 Report Share Posted March 26, 2010 (edited) However, your imagination is even better. Look for regular clothing that you can modify or accessorize yourself. While I know my opinion here really means little; since I am far from fashionable, not a big beautiful goth woman (I'm actually a terribly thin guy, shhh!)...but I do agree with her. I love seeing peoples imaginations at work when it comes to clothing. Hell, on this board we have some women who are AMAZINGLY good at making things and it's always fun people watching, when you can see self expression in every aspect of a person. How they walk, talk, their skin, their clothes..I love it. (btw, I so wish I could be bigger. I am so envious. I honestly am.) Edited March 26, 2010 by Raev Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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