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This is a long shot, I know, but I thought I'd post here to see if anyone is looking for an outdoor cat, or can provide understanding care for him in a one cat home.

Polar is a purebred Bengal, 3 years old, and has papers. He has inactive HCM, which is a heart disease. Right now he is 100% healthy and needs no special care, but he may when he is older and should get regular checkups. He is beautiful, affectionate, and a wonderful boy in general... except that he pees where he should't. I will detail his issue below, because if someone takes him, I want to be 100% open about it, as his previous owner most certainly was NOT.

To clarify: he pees to mark me, and he pees to punish me. SO... he seems to pee aggressively against my other cats, and when he is unhappy with me. The "punishment peeing" is happening right in front of me. I think being in a one cat home will help alot. He seems better when taken outside once in awhile. You will need to confine him whenever you cannot supervise him if he is indoors.

I really want him to have a good home. I cannot provide that for him, as I cannot continue to deal with his issue, having two other cats. I am afraid that they will begin to mark as well, and well, that would be apocalyptic. So if you are interested, repy here, or PM me. *sigh*

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My mom needs another pet (that is, I think she should get one), but she'll blow a gasket if I just show up with one. I'll have to re-check the "cat opinion" last time I brought it up it seemed, noncommittal. Just have a zero-energy, do-nothing puff ball dog at the moment that just does whatever the other pet that shows up wants him to do.

Yeah some cats can be very territorial and one way they express that is peeing. (Makes sense , seeing as how they are the only domestic animal that were solitary before we domesticated them.)

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So beautiful...

If we didn't already have 6 cats (and our own urinating issue with said cats), I would ask my mom if she'd want to take him. Goodluck with finding a home for him!

We're trying to find a nice home for a couple of our cats also.

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My mom needs another pet (that is, I think she should get one), but she'll blow a gasket if I just show up with one. I'll have to re-check the "cat opinion" last time I brought it up it seemed, noncommittal. Just have a zero-energy, do-nothing puff ball dog at the moment that just does whatever the other pet that shows up wants him to do.

Yeah some cats can be very territorial and one way they express that is peeing. (Makes sense , seeing as how they are the only domestic animal that were solitary before we domesticated them.)

Since you're usually home, he might work for you. I might have a home set up for him now, but if no, you can be next in line!

So beautiful...

If we didn't already have 6 cats (and our own urinating issue with said cats), I would ask my mom if she'd want to take him. Goodluck with finding a home for him!

We're trying to find a nice home for a couple of our cats also.

Thanks. I know, he's a wonderful cat... except. >.<

To big for my snake...

NO!

I would actually love to have that cat but I cannot give him the proper care he needs in my lifestyle at the moment. If you still have him by February, I will most likely have the adequate resources and means to properly care for him.

I'll keep it in mind, but with the kids and my other cats, I don't think we'll prevail that long with him.

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