When resentment goes too far

[such_a_WHORE]

I was dating this girl for a few months, when her ex popped back up in the picture. Before she broke up with me, she introduced me to her best friend. Well, inevitably she left me and is currently not speaking to me. The other day I hooked up with her friend, and it got back to her. She let me go, but should I feel bad about what I did?

[Invictus]

Why do you think you should feel bad about it?

[Destroit]

If she dumped you? Naw, I wouldn't. If you dumped her and it was on friendly terms and you turned around and hooked up with her bff, that would not be as legit.

If she dumped you? Naw, I wouldn't. If you dumped her and it was on friendly terms and you turned around and hooked up with her bff, that would not be as legit.

[Epic_Fail_Guy]

No don't feel bad. I've had girls try to guilt trip me after dumping me like that. And you know what, it don't matter if it's their friend or not. They're just get pissed off that you got someone else.

Anytime any of them try to say how bad I am I remind them of the facts by politely saying, "Look you dumped me, now I'm not sure how they do things on your planet, but here on earth if you leave me, I'm free to date whoever the fuck I want, bitch.

And pro tip, if they try to guilt trip you based on some assumption that you saw the break up coming, so you started talking to other girls BEFORE she breaks up with you... even if it's true, don't feel guilty at all. One thing, most girls aren't gonna dump you until they;ve not just found a few possibilities, but have already hooked up with one of them possibilities about an hour ago or less.

The best thing to do, is cut all ties after a break up. It just stops drama. No I don't wanna be your fucking friend, that's just another way of saying you got me on hold just incase of the "unlikely" chance that you and Ex. Con. Hank don't get married. At least this way, if you do accept being friendzoned, she knows you're spineless enough to raise his baby because he left her as soon as he found out he knocked her up.

And on the flip side, it's hard to change your perspective of seeing that person as a lover, to just a friend. It's more work than it's fuckin worth. No I don't wanna be just friends, I was fuckin you.. duh... If i wanted to be just friends I never would have fucked you. If I want friends, oh shit that's right I already have friends. I don't need you, the person that won't let me fuck you anymore, as a friend.

So really, why you're even thinking that you should feel guilty shows that she's trying to get a manipulative grip on your head while you were with her. Dude, drop that chick off your radar and don't feel bad about anything. She ended the whole deal, nothing remains, you can go out and fuck whoever the hell you want.

[Epic_Fail_Guy]

Also, if you are on "friendly terms" with her and she gets butthurt over you with her friend or someone else, then obviously she's wanting you as back up, and ya'll shouldn't be talking still if you're not hooked up.

[Onyx]

The best thing to do, is cut all ties after a break up. It just stops drama.

Agreed!

Also, if you are on "friendly terms" with her and she gets butthurt over you with her friend or someone else, then obviously she's wanting you as back up, and ya'll shouldn't be talking still if you're not hooked up.

Exactly.

Why are you still communicating anyway and how is it any of her concern now?