A Rant

[LadyKay]

This rant is about my husband. Whom I am mad at right now. You see, he says he does not have time to do things like setting up services for stuff or what not. So he gets me to do it. Then he does not like how I did it. Tells me that I should not have set things up the way that I did, and that I should have sit it up a different way. He told me to go get a rental storage place so we can store our junk in because we are moving to a smaller place. When I ask, why can't you do this he tells me he does not have time he has to work. So...off I go to rent out a storage place. So I did that. I rented us a storage place. Now he is telling me I did not do it the way I was suppose to and that I was suppose to pay for 6 months of rent on the place! He didn't say anything about that! He just said, go get the storage place I don't have time! I have told him to just do this stuff yourself cause you never like how I do things. It's always I have to work I don't have time. In the end a lot of times he finds the time to redoing whatever it is I did and sitting it up the way he likes it.

End of rant thank you.

[~Tszura~]

The next time he asks you to do something like that, you can tell him that he can do it himself because he will go and redo it all anyway. It sounds like you have already told him how you feel about it, but it may open the door to another discussion on the matter.

I must admit, I have to watch myself as I sometimes do the whole "redo" thing, as well, with my husband with things like the dishes, or how certain other areas of the house are cleaned/organized. Its a control thing, I know, but I'm working on it! lol

Good luck with any future discussions with your other half