Is it possible?

[Soulrev]

Does anyone think it's possible that someone can love a person so much, that they can actually feel what they are feeling? Or even have dreams about them that end up coming true? Things like that?

[TronRP]

Yes. And I've come to terms with the fact that generally people don't believe me when I tell them my experiences.

Growing up, my mother, my siblings and I always referred to ourselves as the 5 Musketeers because we were all we had and are very close. A heightened sixth sense also runs in our family and during childhood, I was the most sensitive in the immediate branch. I grew up having premonitions that ALWAYS came to fruition by the third day of having a feeling, dream, or vision. It's to the point that all I have to do is mention a word of caution or fortune from a feeling and it's taken seriously...to be brief

[Soulrev]

Yes. And I've come to terms with the fact that generally people don't believe me when I tell them my experiences.

Growing up, my mother, my siblings and I always referred to ourselves as the 5 Musketeers because we were all we had and are very close. A heightened sixth sense also runs in our family and during childhood, I was the most sensitive in the immediate branch. I grew up having premonitions that ALWAYS came to fruition by the third day of having a feeling, dream, or vision. It's to the point that all I have to do is mention a word of caution or fortune from a feeling and it's taken seriously...to be brief

Yeah, like sometimes I get these dreams that often come true, and there have been times where I've thought about something, just day dreaming, later to find out that exact thing just happened when I was thinking about it. Hard to tell if it's just a coincidence of my own thoughts aligning with certain events, or if these thoughts, these day dreams, are some kind of visions. I can tell how she is feeling at just about any moment in time even if I'm not talking to her. I've never had this kind of feeling with someone before, and I'm scared I'm going to lose her. But in a way, I'm not, because I have this feeling deep inside me that it will work out in the end.

[Troy Spiral (13)]

Well the wording there is hard to really give a legit answer to as its broad. But the short answer is yes, sure no question. I'd say I've had this happen many times.

The first part... "feel what they feel" yeah thats just a fact. Nothing supernatural needed there. (could go on about that one for awhile.) The second part is more iffy, even though I've been there myself many times too.

But not specifically talking about that in particular, What we think about and are 'obsessed with" (cant think of a better phrase at 5am on no sleep) will tend to have various effects. Just don't forget to factor in all the dreams and things we wished for that DIDN'T come true. On the whole they balance out pretty well.

Also in terms of "evidence" (people tell stories , I do it myself, about spooky things that have happend to them) research shows over and over and OVER again that "eyewitness testimony" is the worst possible sort of evidince. (As opposed to actual studies, research , etc) As we see what we want to see, memory is faulty, etc.

Its amazing when they actually do research , things that we would swear on a stack of bibles really happend, didn't happen at all the way we remember them, as we are not remembering actual events, we are recontstucting what we think happend , which isn't the same at all. We also retroactively "create" memories which is even more bizzare (dejavu) (hard to get your mind around that at first.) Its just a bizzare fact of perception. Its totally unromantic which is the bummer of reality sometimes. :(

[TronRP]

It is possible I may have missed the point of this particular thread...I think this was in regards to being romantically involved with someone and I am by no means romantically involved with my family members is any manner. Whereas I do love them in a family bond type manner, I believe this is where my ability to feel for them comes from. And the fact that this just occurred again last night, I can not deny that there is something there. Fortunately, there were no casualties or life threatening injuries, but I did lose A LOT of sleep over it since I didn't follow my usual protocol of messaging everyone...just happy it's all over with for the time being...

[kat (1)]

Um, absolutely two people can "feel" each other. At the very basic level I believe that being able to feel someone truly is pure empathy, basic...but that's just because you want to feel and because you want to understand, but I know exactly what you are talking about..it's the intuitive part. The one that makes you finish each other's sentances and shit. That's all spiritual, though... I believe from what I have read that you are a pretty spiritual person so I can see why you get these feelings the way you do..the more in tune you are with your own spirituality and, therefore, the belief that the soul exists than the more you can feel things inside your soul, which would in turn lead you to be able to feel the energy and aura of another person whether they be spiritual or not... anyway, I believe, these occurances, for example, the having the same thoughts tht the other one has at the same time they have them and blurting them out at the same moment or the other occurances you mentioned, well in the spiritual sense, we hear the term "soulmate", but this, what you are describing is much deeper. We go through life meeting many soulmates but we only have one twinflame..and what you are describing is what this could be. Read this, now granted I get alot of shit for being spiritual and believing in guardian angels, and god and stuff so take my advice with a grain of salt, please but good luck. I hope this is the case for you here...http://www.collapsingduality.com/FAQ.html

Edited January 10, 2014 by kat

[kat (1)]

It is possible I may have missed the point of this particular thread...I think this was in regards to being romantically involved with someone and I am by no means romantically involved with my family members is any manner. Whereas I do love them in a family bond type manner, I believe this is where my ability to feel for them comes from. And the fact that this just occurred again last night, I can not deny that there is something there. Fortunately, there were no casualties or life threatening injuries, but I did lose A LOT of sleep over it since I didn't follow my usual protocol of messaging everyone...just happy it's all over with for the time being...

Are you still happy and in love and stuff?

[TronRP]

Are you still happy and in love and stuff?

Yep

...however, I do consider myself to still be in the courting stage. Many details are still being worked out.

[Soulrev]

I think I'm losing my mind. I could really use someone to talk to deeply about this whole situation. I've already put a lot of it on the board between this and the other thread I started.. I feel like my soul is being thrown into a woodchipper. I don't know if this is some sick torture for all the wrong doing I've done in my life or what.

Maybe I'm just wasting my time. I just don't understand how someone like that could come into my life and then be taken away. It's my own fault, I suppose. But she's led me on all this time... Those things on that website? I know I've felt just about every one of them, and I'm pretty sure she has, too. She tells me she loves me and doesn't want to hurt me... So, am I to understand that in my situation it's a one-sided thing? I mean, if we truly had these connections, she would do whatever it took to be with me, wouldn't one think? Is it possible I can feel these things but she cannot? But, I've never felt this way about ANYONE before. I don't know how else to describe it... This is so frustrating, I don't know what to do anymore.

[kat (1)]

I think I'm losing my mind. I could really use someone to talk to deeply about this whole situation. I've already put a lot of it on the board between this and the other thread I started.. I feel like my soul is being thrown into a woodchipper. I don't know if this is some sick torture for all the wrong doing I've done in my life or what.

Maybe I'm just wasting my time. I just don't understand how someone like that could come into my life and then be taken away. It's my own fault, I suppose. But she's led me on all this time... Those things on that website? I know I've felt just about every one of them, and I'm pretty sure she has, too. She tells me she loves me and doesn't want to hurt me... So, am I to understand that in my situation it's a one-sided thing? I mean, if we truly had these connections, she would do whatever it took to be with me, wouldn't one think? Is it possible I can feel these things but she cannot? But, I've never felt this way about ANYONE before. I don't know how else to describe it... This is so frustrating, I don't know what to do anymore.

Well, hon, I am wondering did you meet her online? Have you met in person? Do you really know her, really, truly know who she is and what she is about? I will talk to you, listen to you about this situation in detail if you want someone to talk to because I have in the recent past felt the very same way. It sounds to me like, to be blunt hon, you are being mind fucked. I need to know more though. Maybe she has issues, most likely as we all do...but what those issues are, who knows..I would need to know more about the scenererio if you are intersted. If she refuses to meet you in person and is acting like she is interested but is making excuses my advice to you is to drop it and run far and fast...chances are, this is her favorite game that she probably has played with others like you before and may be currently playing with several as it may be her only source of attention, you may be feeding an addiction she has. I need to know more though.

[TronRP]

...post topic happening now...

The level of concern and speculation is enough to drive one crazy. I'm just surprised to be going through this more than once in a given week...

...will have to update later

[TronRP]

I think I'm losing my mind. I could really use someone to talk to deeply about this whole situation. I've already put a lot of it on the board between this and the other thread I started.. I feel like my soul is being thrown into a woodchipper. I don't know if this is some sick torture for all the wrong doing I've done in my life or what.

Maybe I'm just wasting my time. I just don't understand how someone like that could come into my life and then be taken away. It's my own fault, I suppose. But she's led me on all this time... Those things on that website? I know I've felt just about every one of them, and I'm pretty sure she has, too. She tells me she loves me and doesn't want to hurt me... So, am I to understand that in my situation it's a one-sided thing? I mean, if we truly had these connections, she would do whatever it took to be with me, wouldn't one think? Is it possible I can feel these things but she cannot? But, I've never felt this way about ANYONE before. I don't know how else to describe it... This is so frustrating, I don't know what to do anymore.

kat definitely hit this one on the head for what it sounds like you might be going through...however, if you need more ears on your subject, just let me know...or better yet, keep posting about it. The venting helps as well as input from outside perspectives...

...as long as you don't mind us all up in your business...

[kat (1)]

Yep

...however, I do consider myself to still be in the courting stage. Many details are still being worked out.

Call me sometime..we have catch up to play.

[kat (1)]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmOSnUSOBAQ

[kat (1)]

You can actually check out other videos on that site, that one may not be helpful or answer your questions but it should llnk you to some type of meditation to help answer your questions.

[Soulrev]

It doesn't matter anymore. I guess I was just a damn fool. Or maybe she is the fool. No, it wasn't a person I met online. This was someone who I spent the best 2 months of my life with, and in the saddest of stories I have, I lost her. I would tell the story, but it just hurts too fucking much to talk about it right now. Maybe someday I'll share the saddest story of my life. For now, I guess it's just a lost chapter of my life.

In all actuality, if the story were fiction and I published it, people wouldn't buy it because they would think it's too ridiculous. That's how sad it is.

Edited February 2, 2014 by Soulrev

[kat (1)]

I'm sorry. Reading what you wrote sent an ache through my heart. Losing someone you love is a feeling of grief, and mourning for me as I lost who I loved, probably the only love to death, young, so heartbreak, to me feels like death, the grieving, the mourning. I didn't find that out about myself until recently. I like to believe that all the bullshit we go through when we are young, when we think we are in love is just a test until you really, know what love is but I will stay away from that. I don't know your history or anything but if you can move past this heartbreak than maybe one day you will find what I believe could be that one person who really belongs by your side......I, again feel sorry about what you are going through. I know you probably don't want to hear anyone's opinion right now but I at least empathize with you. Hugs

[kat (1)]

I just saw what you wrote about fiction and people not believing the story, I feel like that about my entire life, its so much shit that one person who is still in their 30's to go through. Just telling people parts about myself , the chapters I have lived through, make people uncomfortable and probably in the back of their minds are like "yeah, fucking right, she would have ate a bullet by now".....that's real, I know most people who truly know my life and know all of me, they probably think I should have

[Soulrev]

Thank you, I truly appreciate the support. Yeah, I'll be 29 in a week, but I totally understand where you're coming from, I've been through more than most people in their 40's have. Though, I'm sure there are plenty more out there who have had it way, way worse, I have still been around the block a few times. I do, however, feel blessed to still have the things I do have, like my life. I should be dead, but I'm still here for some reason.

I also feel heartbreak is like grieving. In a way, it is, because when you lose someone you love that much, it's like losing a part of yourself, that you may never get back again. The pain is definitely equal.

Such is life.

[kat (1)]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmOSnUSOBAQ

Damn it! I tried this meditation exercise and when the guy with the white hair and blue eyes took me to meet my so called twin flame, I ended up giving them a simple hematite stone but walked away with a heavenly rash all over my body, now I'm knocked up and I have no idea who my baby daddy is...the blue eyed, white haired man smacked me in my head and said I was not suppose to do that stuff, I screwed the whole damn thing up. Don't try this exercise..BEWARE, BEWARE, you will get knocked up.

[torn asunder]

Damn it! I tried this meditation exercise and when the guy with the white hair and blue eyes took me to meet my so called twin flame, I ended up giving them a simple hematite stone but walked away with a heavenly rash all over my body, now I'm knocked up and I have no idea who my baby daddy is...the blue eyed, white haired man smacked me in my head and said I was not suppose to do that stuff, I screwed the whole damn thing up. Don't try this exercise..BEWARE, BEWARE, you will get knocked up.

that's because, if you'll look closely, it wasn't a meditation, but a *mediation*. i'm not sure how a mediator fits in to this whole concept, but...