My Husband And Our Dog

[LadyKay]

I have a 9 year old Labrador. Very well behaved and well trained. She is a house dog and ever since she has been a puppy she has been let outside to do what dogs do. Since we live in the middle of no where there are no leash laws. So it is perefectly normal to let your dog out to do her thing on her own. Our dog is very well train like I said and never goes outside our yard. She dose her thing then comes back to the house when she wants in. It has always been this way. I have been the one who takes care of the dog from the time we got her. So it is usually me who lets her outside to be a dog. Now I have been doing this for 9 years with no issue. But here latley when I let her out, my husband is jumping on me acting like I am leaving her outside for hours! When all I have done was let her out to go poo and right back in she comes. But now it seems everytime I do this, I get a lectrue from him telling me " she is not an outside dog!" I got mad and said fine I guess she will just have to poo in the house! Not a good ideal I know. But I do not know what is going on here! I mean we have done this since we have had the dog, 9 years! And now it is like he seems to think that just because I have let her outside to go poo I am forcing her to live outside! I do not know what to do here. I dread letting the dog out because I know he is going to jump my case about it! I finely gave up and told him for now on he can let the dog out since he feels I am not doing it right. This whole thing is ridiculous and I do not know what is going on here! I am tired of getting into an argument everytime to dog has to go poo!

[TronRP]

Not to start anything, but every time I've heard of a situation like this, the husband is either having an affair or thinking about having an affair and starts comparing his wife's actions to somebody else...

[Trene4000]

I agree with TronRP

Not to start anything, but every time I've heard of a situation like this, the husband is either having an affair or thinking about having an affair and starts comparing his wife's actions to somebody else...

This is classic behavior. Unless he's suffered from a head injury, or drug usage, he is setting up a situation where it makes it seem you are not meeting his needs so it is more acceptable in his head for him to cheat.

[LadyKay]

No No its not about cheating. It seems we have worked things out. Iv been letting the dog out and nothing is being said. We are going threw a hard time right now so it maybe just tension causing this. But I know he is not cheating.