saechalyn Posted July 13, 2005 Report Share Posted July 13, 2005 I generally avoid scales. My weight and I have a long & complicated history and it's not a friendly one. So I finally decided to stop thinking about "losing weight" and instead try to focus on "being healthy." I refuse to diet or view any foods as "forbidden"- that mindset just flips a switch in my brain and makes me crave crap that I don't even honestly want. I refuse to deprive myself or be hungry all the time. Instead I've been trying to add foods to my diet that are healthy and that I actually like and let the cravings for fat and sugar go away on their own. It's working! Likewise I've been thinking about gaining energy, being stronger and sleeping better when I go to the gym instead of shedding weight. It's hard, but I think it's working too. I just looked today and I'm down 48 pounds from my highest weight! I'm still big but it's good to know that what I'm doing is working. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MsMaldoror Posted July 13, 2005 Report Share Posted July 13, 2005 Hey, congrats! That's a lot of weight to lose. Glad to hear that you're lifestyle in general is healthy. =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brenda Starrr Posted July 13, 2005 Report Share Posted July 13, 2005 Congrats to you!!!! I'm cutting out sodas and fast food. That is the hardest thing for me, as I love Taco Hell. But I just got on the scale and found that i weigh 151lbs. I'd just like to see 140 again.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaneDead Posted July 13, 2005 Report Share Posted July 13, 2005 wow that is a amazing! good for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daevion Posted July 13, 2005 Report Share Posted July 13, 2005 congrats!!! :grin I know I gotta get up off my fat ass and get some exercise...I'm starting to look like eric cartman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fierce Critter Posted July 13, 2005 Report Share Posted July 13, 2005 Good for you! This is inspiring. Last night, I felt like getting on the Orbitrek. I think I'm gonna do it today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilith Posted July 13, 2005 Report Share Posted July 13, 2005 WOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOO THat is one hll of an accomplishment, just to eat healthy for health sakes is hard. lilith Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nienna Posted July 14, 2005 Report Share Posted July 14, 2005 Congrats! I'm trying to lose somewhere between 70 and 80 lbs to get to the "ideal" weight for my height. I'm going to quit losing when I'm happy with my body though. You are an inspiration! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saechalyn Posted July 15, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Thanks guys! I try not to dwell on it too much (I used to make myself throw up- hey actually it's been 4 years this week since I stopped. Go me.) so I know I'm susceptible to unhealthy behaviors in this realm. I honeslty don't even have a goal weight- I try to tell myself that my body will settle at a natural healthy weight as a result of an overall healthy lifestyle, but damn is it hard to keep that in mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mallochai Posted July 15, 2005 Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Sweet! that's totally awesome, you ARE an inspiration! *claps* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nienna Posted July 15, 2005 Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Thanks guys! I try not to dwell on it too much (I used to make myself throw up- hey actually it's been 4 years this week since I stopped. Go me.) so I know I'm susceptible to unhealthy behaviors in this realm. I honeslty don't even have a goal weight- I try to tell myself that my body will settle at a natural healthy weight as a result of an overall healthy lifestyle, but damn is it hard to keep that in mind. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ideally it will. Man.. I wish I could get your midset! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saechalyn Posted July 15, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Ideally it will. Man.. I wish I could get your midset! <{POST_SNAPBACK}> My first weight loss attempt was at age 11...so you could say this was 16 years in the making. Here's hoping I finally get it right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shade Everdark Posted July 15, 2005 Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 That is the awesome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aralis Posted July 15, 2005 Report Share Posted July 15, 2005 Congrats! That is great! I am hoping to shed 30lbs myself. I just started working out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothicmom Posted July 21, 2005 Report Share Posted July 21, 2005 Good for you!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheLordShaper Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Seems like we are all on the shedding some weight mentality as of late so I'll add my success story. I went from 289 to 187 in about 16 months by doing basically what saechalyn is doing. Once I stopped focusing on losing weight and just learned to be healthy the weight came off. I dropped the regular soda and really watched my simple carbs, dropped fast food completely other then salads and fruit and yogurt things. Additionally I added in a simple biking routine and light weights that I have sense stepped up to heavy weights. I found that this coupled with decent cardio work really quick taken the pounds off. I’m a big meat person so I dabbled with the whole Adkins thing but found that a modified more realistic version really worked well. It was closer to that south beach thing but I was cheap and never got he book. Anyway it took a lot of dedication and heartache but it worked. I'm now around 195 so I'm a bit higher then I'd like but that’s only as of late. I'm back at the YMCA again now trying to get that taken care of and trying to get my cardio up. I can't keep up on the dance floor to 5 hours of synth and industrial. Hello elliptical machine... Good luck to all of you out there working on weight loss. It’s such a bitch but that feeling you get is worth all the pain. I gained so much self confidence and inner acceptance that I can honestly say it changed my life dramatically, if not saved it. ~TLS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saechalyn Posted July 22, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Way to go TLS! High protein and veggies works really well for me too. ....52 pounds (and counting!!!!!!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marblez Posted July 22, 2005 Report Share Posted July 22, 2005 Great Job Saechalyn. I am very happy for you. I am beginning to get there myself. I will dwell more about me in another thread but your story was inspiring to me and I wanted to let you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SomeDanGuy Posted July 28, 2005 Report Share Posted July 28, 2005 Just read a statistic on the news today that every pound you lose reduces the load on your knees by 4 pounds every step you take Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saechalyn Posted July 28, 2005 Author Report Share Posted July 28, 2005 Just read a statistic on the news today that every pound you lose reduces the load on your knees by 4 pounds every step you take <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I definitely feel the difference. My knees don't hurt after a night of dancing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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