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It is possible for me to seperate... but very rarely and maybe not at all... The only time I seem to be able to do that is when I am so unbelievably pissed that I am white hot with spite and rage, which is odd because this is also when women seem to find me the most attractive.

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Awww, what a sweetie. And all of these hard ass posts about romance....are you saying you want to wait for the right thing and not just do the horizontal bop?

You surprise me. I think it's sweet.... :blushing

Yeah, I'll be waiting for something special...and probably dying before i ever have sex again.  damnit to hell

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I picked other, because...Not anymore.

The reasons why are personal and I don't really want to elaborate too much on here...but I decided (a long, long time ago) that I wasn't going to have sex again until it was with someone I really care about. Yeah I'm still waiting...physically it's frustrating, but for me it's the right thing.

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Me too if I really like the person.....and I don't have sex more than a couple times if I don't really like you so....I just take long breaks so I don't get attached....most people understand and do the same.

i'm an emotional person, so when i do have sex, i get attached. not right away, mind you, but it happens.

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Ok so I dont know why but I wanted to click quote on everyone because I love all your posts and feel this urge to add my .02 and therefore take any inherent value away from them :grin

Here's me personally. I'm better at thinking I can handle one night stand than in real life.

I see people

I find them attractive.

I get with them.

I get a little attached. :doh

When I had a string of truly emotionless one-nighters during a bad point in my life, I emerged feeling kinda empty, to be honest.

And it was almost always men

Because we're whores

And they were more readily available

And I think it easier for me to not feel attached to them.

I think it comes down to the fact that sex is an emotional experience for me.

If I like you, you're going to know it,

and when we get together

you're going to hear it.

There's just something about being entwined with another

holding them

kissing them

tasting them

feeling their lips on your neck and all over your body

It is very affecting.

With women it's often more intense for me, because if you're with me, youre probably going to receive oral,

and if my tongue is inside you

and I take ALL of you in, there's going to be a closeness I feel that I wouldnt otherwise.

It is possible for me to seperate... but very rarely and maybe not at all... The only time I seem to be able to do that is when I am so unbelievably pissed that I am white hot with spite and rage, which is odd because this is also when women seem to find me the most attractive.

Yeah, women say they like a nice guy, but when it comes down to it, there seems to be an animal attraction to assholes.

I have no heart, so therefore.....I have no emotions to attach to sex. :tear

Maybe someday, I'll grow up and fall in love with someone. I'm just at this really jaded point in my life.  I don't want to fall in love, but I still want to have my fun...is that wrong of me?

No heart, huh? Have you considered seeing the wizard? I'm going to see him to see if he'll give me a brain. Anyone lacking courage want to join me??

I voted for the first option... all sex is emotionless for me.  It's just easier that way.

Yeah, it's a lot easier. I wish I had that power. Emotional sex is so much more enjoyable though. =(

i'm an emotional person, so when i do have sex, i get attached. not right away, mind you, but it happens.

:swoon

Me too if I really like the person.....and I don't have sex more than a couple times if I don't really like you so....I just take long breaks so I don't get attached....most people understand and do the same.

That's great advice.

Its tough though. You take a break and you really want them. How long do yuo go for it to wear off??

(I remember when I was with one and she went away. When she came back I wanted her even more. I was single so we fell in love. Not every circumstance is that easy)

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And I think it easier for me to not feel attached to them.

I think it comes down to the fact that sex is an emotional experience for me.

If I like you, you're going to know it,

and when we get together

you're going to hear it.

There's just something about being entwined with another

holding them

kissing them

tasting them

feeling their lips on your neck and all over your body

It is very affecting.

With women it's often more intense for me, because if you're with me, youre probably going to receive oral,

and if my tongue is inside you

* um yah.....get your f*cking ass down here right now. * Heh heh.....from HH

(More eternal quotes)

That's great advice.

Its tough though. You take a break and you really want them. How long do yuo go for it to wear off??

* Currently I am taking a 6 month to year break from someone. * It's hard but better than loosing a freind and awesome sex partner....we are both married so we have to watch it...our hearts that is....* .....from HH

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Other, because A: I havent had sex yet. B: I think I'd only do it if I really cared for the person.....

.... But then we get into how sometimes people just date for date's sake. Very little feeling involved. And I admit to cheating on my Ex, and I didnt have much feeling involved between me and the guy.

I still claim other, but I could possibly keep emotions separate from physical contact....

.... I just dont know yet. e.e

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:blushing Well..if both parties have agreed to just having sex and nothing else then all should be horny dorky.

IF someone gets hurt then it was foretold what the intention was so :confused

Sometimes you can find your true love from casual sex :nut I sure found a husband once :grin

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Yeah, i say it's time to shelve romance & get off a nut!! :woot:  :woot:  :woot:

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Why were you on top of the nut in the first place? That's what's important, if you ask me. You could crush the poor guy!

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I suppose I'm part of the "sometimes" crew. I've been in periods where I didn't mind just doinking. I'm not in one of those right now... though I've entertained the idea quite a bit regarding certain people. I'm still feeling burned out and scarred right now, so I don't want to worry about either looking for someone to screw, or someone to screw who I want to date.

Right now, I just want to do things for me. I'm managing myself on the horny scale, so I think I'm ready to hold out for something worthwhile.

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