How'd you meet yur spouse or fiance?

[Moonlight_Phantasy]

Just out of curiosity, did you meet yur Spouse or Fiance through DGN or City Club? Or through a friend from DGN or City Club???

[bean]

I met my hubby (soon to be ex, seperated from, whatever) at City Club. I was dancing, with my eyes closed and when I opened them, he was in front of me. We danced together in silence for a few songs, then introduced ourselves, talked for a bit, then danced together until close. Then we got to know each other a bit better in my car in the parking structure...hehe.

Crap, thinking back to those times makes me sad because of how things are now... :tear

[Moonlight_Phantasy]

I met my hubby  (soon to be ex, seperated from, whatever) at City Club.  I was dancing, with my eyes closed and when I opened them, he was in front of me.  We danced together in silence for a few songs, then introduced ourselves, talked for a bit, then danced together until close.  Then we got to know each other a bit better in my car in the parking structure...hehe.

Crap, thinking back to those times makes me sad because of how things are now... :tear

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Awww, poor baby! I know, you and I have had many talks in City bathroom about this. *Hugz* Thats okay, you still are a cute, sexy little thang.

[Aralis]

I did not meet my hubby at CC or on here but I met him on yahoo messenger...lol! :grin

[Moonlight_Phantasy]

Eh, close enough! :grin

[Homicidalheathen]

I met my significant other through a personals dating service ad. :blushing

[kellygrrrrrl]

We were friends for many years, watching eachother go through Bad relationships. When we were BOTH single, and went to go see a show together, and at the end of the night we were talking about how we shouldv'e been together years ago. SO, after being friends for 4 years, we dated for 5, and then got married!

I love my Mike!

[BlackSkittles]

I bought a spouse once at Husbands R Us, but then I had to take him back because I thought that he was dysfunctional. But, the lady at the store told me that they were "all like that." So, I got a refund and spent it on a cool pair of boots instead.

[saechalyn]

We were friends for many years, watching eachother go through Bad relationships.  When we were BOTH single, and went to go see a show together, and at the end of the night we were talking about how we shouldv'e been together years ago.  SO, after being friends for 4 years, we dated for 5, and then got married!

I love my Mike!

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I've always thought the best relationships begin as friends. I love this story!

[Steven]

I was a US Army Soldier.

3 months away from getting out and going home (California).

One day a new blonde medic with a great butt was transferred into my Battalion from Germany.

I was sick that week with a chest cold.

She was my medic.

She was also engaged and three weeks away from her wedding and I was sleeping with her Maiden of Honor (another Army medic).

We started talking. We clicked. We had that "thing" - not the sex thing (alsthought the attraction was definately there) - but that thing that says you'll be friends forever.

I married her 4 months later.

19 years ago.

She makes me laugh everyday and we'll be best friends forever.

Her fiancee was a cool guy, and even though I was a man whore back then I didint really steal her. For once my love life was not scandelous. We met, and we knew right away, he was the wrong one, I was the right one, and she meant everything to me immediately.

[EvilEve]

see, this is one of those times where i could go on forever talking about how i met Prophet, and all of the shit that happened before we finally became what we are today.

let's explore that with a little bit of short-hand, shall we?

met him while we were in Jr. High.

lost contact for 1yr.

got back in contact after my first year at High School.

found out he liked a friend of mine.

he changed his mind, and went out with me.

broke up.

went back out.

broke up again.

summer came, had a summer fling.

broke up again.

he went out with someone else, i was on the backburner. still his friend, mind you.

went out with my best friend at the time.

broke my heart.

both apologized.

didn't talk to them for 3-5 days.

they broke up 6months later.

he went out with someone else.

went back out with my friend.

she broke his heart again.

went back out with me.

broke up with me again.

we're still friends while he goes out with other people.

i meet someone and start seeing them.

he get's jealous.

go back out with him.

last's for almost a year.

he breaks up with me again.

"friends with benifits."

we both go out with different people.

both realize that we really want to be with each other.

have a "thing" while we're still seeing other people.

get rid of other people.

everything's fine for one month.

find out how sick he is.

still with him.

that's about 7yrs. of being in a relationship. and about 3yrs. of being friends. notice a pattern here? no matter how many times we weren't together, we were still friends, and somehow manage to find each other through all the crap that's gone on.

i loved him the first time i saw him.

he's my everything.

without him, i'd have gone insane a long time ago, and would be in a worse situation now than what i have been in the past.

[Lilith]

I met Lestat at a bar i worked at for about a year and a half.....I waited on him the whole time, He never paid attention to me and i paid none to him. I dated His Friend but is was more like a mutual usage relationship, and then one day Lestat and i started to talk about what the Other guy would tell them about me :blink ANy how b ythe end of the conversation, I had his pager #, He Cleaned off my car windows (it was snowing), we Played Phone tag for three days and finaly had our first date and i fell madly for him. We got married 6 months later.

[Onyx]

I bought a spouse once at Husbands R Us, but then I had to take him back because I thought that he was dysfunctional.  But, the lady at the store told me that they were "all like that."  So, I got a refund and spent it on a cool pair of boots instead.

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Damn! I knew I should've saved the receipt for that marriage license. I wasted years and years because I didn't know they were returnable!

[Onyx]

I was a US Army Soldier.

3 months away from getting out and going home (California).

One day a new blonde medic with a great butt was transferred into my Battalion from Germany.

I was sick that week with a chest cold.

She was my medic.

She was also engaged and three weeks away from her wedding and I was sleeping with her Maiden of Honor (another Army medic). 

We started talking.  We clicked.  We had that "thing" - not the sex thing (alsthought the attraction was definately there) - but that thing that says you'll be friends forever. 

I married her 4 months later. 

19 years ago. 

She makes me laugh everyday and we'll be best friends forever. 

Her fiancee was a cool guy, and even though I was a man whore back then I didint really steal her.  For once my love life was not scandelous.  We met, and we knew right away, he was the wrong one, I was the right one, and she meant everything to me immediately.

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wow.

That reads like something from a movie. I didn't know things like that actually happened. Good to see marriage does sometimes work out well.

[Moonlight_Phantasy]

Awwww....all those stories are so sweet. Even with the Husband that was brought back to the store......How cute.

[ManicQueen]

My boyfriend and I started talking on ICQ messenger around 2001. We talked for about a year then met in Feb. 2002. We went to see Gwar that night. We've been togather ever since and are in process of planning our wedding that will take place very soon.

[honeymustard02]

Lol That's weird because I met my boyfriend on ICQ in like 1998-99. We met two and half years after that and have been together now for about 4 years.

[Brenda Starrr]

Wayne walked into a party that I was attending. I didn't find him even remotely attractive. I had also just left my ex-husband, so I wasn't digging the idea of even dating. Wayne called my roommates every freakin' day for about a month, asking if they thought that I would go out with him. I kept saying no. He grew on me, much like a fungus. I eventually fell in love with him. We dated, then broke up. Three times. Obviously, we finally got it right.

[Moonlight_Phantasy]

Wayne walked into a party that I was attending. I didn't find him even remotely attractive. I had also just left my ex-husband, so I wasn't digging the idea of even dating. Wayne called my roommates every freakin' day for about a month, asking if they thought that I would go out with him. I kept saying no. He grew on me, much like a fungus. I eventually fell in love with him. We dated, then broke up. Three times. Obviously, we finally got it right.

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Hey, after the initial three times, the one after is always the right one. The third time isnt a charm after all.

[gothicmom]

I met Bishop at a night club in Flint, The Hot Rock!

I had spied him a few weeks before. But this one particular Sat night we started flirting across the dance floor. Then we started talking and dancing together.

Then this drunk dude starting talking to me! YUCK! I was so rude to this guy, I wouldn't look at him when he was talking to me, I'd turn away but he stayed. Then the last song of the night was played. I went out to dance, Daniel went out to dance by me and then this drunk guy tried to put his hands on me and dance. The song was "This is Where The Story Ends" By The Sundays. Daniel came up to him and said that I was his girlfriend and that he didn't care if I talked to other guys or fast danced but not slow dance. The guy apologised and left. I was all "thankyou thankyou thankyou!!!!!!"

After, we went to this cafe down the street and had strawberry malts then went to my place to "watch movies" :grin

We spent everynight together for over 14 years!

There is a twist in this story!! He was all packed up to move to AA on Wednesday, we met on Sat. He unpacked his stuff on Monday night and he stayed with me! I was supposed to be a one night stand. He said when we woke up that next morning I smiled and sighed a happy sigh and he was thinking that something good was going on and he didn't want to leave it!

[Reaper]

I met Nicole in a metal chatroom in Yahoo. One of the first few people I had talked to in Yahoo back in 1997. We were friends for all the time until this last year when I found out that she had deep feelings for me all this time. I avoided overseas relationships before because one failed from a girl in England. That went so sour at the end. She was just a poser anyway. At least her parents paid for my flight so I didnt waste a whole lot.

Nicole made the effort in paying for a flight to get here. Shes been here 2 times now and is coming back for a whole month in late december to late january. We aer working on the fiance visa now.

[Fierce Critter]

Jon sent me an IM out of the blue in February, 1998. Ordinarily, I ignore or delete IM's from people I don't know.

This time was different. Something about it...

We talked in IM's every night after that, often for 3-5 hours at a time. Moved on to phone calls when we could, lots of love letters back and forth.

He came up to Michigan from Florida in April, 1998. Long story of many moves back and forth from Michigan to Florida for both of us, but we were married in October of 1998, and just celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary yesterday.

I have a copy of every IM we shared. :grin

[xorderofchaosx]

*tear* i want a happy story too*feels left out*

[MarsDustDoug]

heheeh ready for a laugh? Met my fiance in '99 while going to raves.

First thought she was underage and sorta blew her off (hehe shes actually about a year older than I)

Found out later that she was in fact older than I and decided to take a shot... she was taken... dratz...

I get her number at the first DEMF and promptly lose it in a pile of other papers... dratz

Dont see her for about 5 months.

Go to a party in the good old chop shop in detroit. dancein my ass off with my crew in the circle and catch this sweet kitten starin' and smiling at me while im danceing... I pull out my bestest ice breaker for thsi one...

"can I bum a smoke"

So we start talkin and she says "You dont remember me do you?"...dratz

Attempting to not look like an ass to this gorgeous girl I do what Im good at. BS my way through it.

"Of course I remember you Your hair is different and blah blah blah" I was right the thigns I said were different.. still didnt know who it was fully... Hoped for someone to come by and say her name so I dotn get put on the spot...

luck wasnt with me this night....

Friend comes up and asks who she was... I introduce her as Stefanie... "Stefanie" says "Hi nice to meet you... but my name is Michelle".... dratz

Low-and-behold... She still gave me a chance and we have been together for five years. engaged for five months. I guess that raver relationships can work when the people arent on drugs hehe

[gothicmom]

I guess that raver relationships can work when the people arent on drugs hehe

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