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As of recent, which was part of the reason why I took off two weeks from CC, I was dating a girl I've known for a while. We had only dated for a month and she decided to call it quits as of Sat after CC (Yeah...I got a fucking call at 4am...) Last night, I went to the bar with some friends, and she got mad at me since it was her sunday spot...if it werent for the fact I had shown her that bar in the first place. Now I couldn't care less if she were to show up, but she attempted to make me jealous. The only thing it really did was upset me since I can't even hold it together for a month relationship wise. At least my drinking didn't interfere with this one. She told me to stay away from her but we hang out at the same places and I don't think its fair for me to stop having fun because she doesn't want to see me there. I didn't talk to her last night and I didn't plan on bothereing her whereever I went that she happened to show at. She told me we were on good terms and that I was a good person...this makes no sense...

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I am a baby I guess because I try to avoid people after a fall out.  Just better for me.

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thats not being a baby at all. Thats not usually a bad thing to just let things calm down.

I just dont think its fair that I should have to stop going to places I like to hang out at like the necto or that bar or hell even the damn town of plymouth because of this.

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Doesn't seem fair to ask you to be the one to change your hangouts since she was the one who initiated the breakup.  If it bothers her to see you there she should be the one to find another place to go.

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thank you! That or she doesnt have to make a big fuss over it and just go do her own thing in the first place...

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i agree with both of them, she broke up with you. so she needs to either go about her business if you two happen to be in the same place, so what? you dont have to talk to each other ifyou dont want to. or, if it such a big deal for her, she should find somewhere to go that she knows you won't be. it isnt fair to ask you to change since you are not the one having an issue with the two of you in the same place by chance. hang it out, confrere!

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I agree with everyone else.

When I broke up with my boyfriend of ten months, I was the one who dropped out of the roleplay group (which we met through). This was my own choice, because I didn't want to make him uncomfortable, even though I was not feeling awkward about any of it and I -really- wanted to be in that group.

But I bowed out for him.

If she can't at least be courteous to someone after breaking up with them and let them chill in their own space, well, fuck her.

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