Getting dumped again

[Marblez]

I was sorry to hear this Crank. The two of you did seem like a nice couple. Who knows...maybe another time, another place. Feel whatever you feel but be careful what you put out there. Careful of burning bridges, you know?

Perhaps she just needed some time to decide what it is that she wanted - you are going through a difficult time in your life right now. Maybe it was too early for her to handle that added to her own stresses right now.

Maybe she just wasn't the right one - for you or you for her. Time will tell.

To everyone else....be careful to not jump on a person that you don't know, i.e. calling her stupidand such. Be aware that this is a public message board and anyone could be reading everything you say.

-been there, done that and learned my lesson.

[Onyx]

I was sorry to hear this Crank. The two of you did seem like a nice couple.  Who knows...maybe another time, another place.  Feel whatever you feel but be careful what you put out there.  Careful of burning bridges, you know?

Perhaps she just needed some time to decide what it is that she wanted - you are going through a difficult time in your life right now.  Maybe it was too early for her to handle that added to her own stresses right now.

Maybe she just wasn't the right one - for you or you for her. Time will tell.

To everyone else....be careful to not jump on a person that you don't know, i.e. calling her stupidand such. Be aware that this is a public message board and anyone could be reading everything you say. 

-been there, done that and learned my lesson.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

This is a very good point.

We all make mistakes and even the best of us may behave badly at times even to those we care about, however I do still stand by what I said about a man or a woman who would just disappear rather than discuss things with someone they are dating. I really hate that and I do believe it says something about a person's character. At least have the decency to end things rather than just stop communicating.

One thing I really hate on this board lately is the male and female bashing I see. All men are not evil and all women do not like bad boys and being treated badly. I am sick of reading this crap. I have dated some wonderful men who have treated me very well, am still friendly with them and if circumstances had been different we might still be together, one of whom I'd date again in a heartbeat if given the chance. And by the way, I usually out-earn most of the men I date, sometimes even double or triple what they make and I refuse to apologize for my success. I've worked my ass off and I've earned it.

I hate all these generalizations about how women are and how men are. There are worthy men and women out there. Time to decide you deserve better!

[Msterbeau]

This is a very good point.

We all make mistakes and even the best of us may behave badly at times even to those we care about, however I do still stand by what I said about a man or a woman who would just disappear rather than discuss things with someone they are dating.  I really hate that and I do believe it says something about a person's character.  At least have the decency to end things rather than just stop communicating.

One thing I really hate on this board lately is the male and female bashing I see.  All men are not evil and all women do not like bad boys and being treated badly.  I am sick of reading this crap.  I have dated some wonderful men who have treated me very well, am still friendly with them and if circumstances had been different we might still be together, one of whom I'd date again in a heartbeat if given the chance. And by the way, I usually out-earn most of the men I date, sometimes even double or triple what they make and I refuse to apologize for my success.  I've worked my ass off and I've earned it. 

I hate all these generalizations about how women are and how men are.  There are worthy men and women out there.  Time to decide you deserve better!

Amen. Right-on. Word.

[ZhukovCodeslinger]

all generalizationgs are made by people who suck!

maybe the girl was crazy and just had a psychotic break.... that does happen from time to time.

[Msterbeau]

all generalizationgs are made by people who suck!

maybe the girl was crazy and just had a psychotic break.... that does happen from time to time.

Can we infer that since Paradox sucks, he also generalizes?

[Homicidalheathen]

Perhaps she just needed some time to decide what it is that she wanted - you are going through a difficult time in your life right now. Maybe it was too early for her to handle that added to her own stresses right now.

Maybe she just wasn't the right one - for you or you for her. Time will tell.

To everyone else....be careful to not jump on a person that you don't know, i.e. calling her stupidand such. Be aware that this is a public message board and anyone could be reading everything you say.

Yes, I mean.....a yaht? A mansion? No, I don't think all women want a rich guy.........but stability, yes. You know, just the basics.

I so think you at least deserve a call though. I wonder why people are such cowards these days? But I guess I speak my mind too much.

Don't let one person make you bitter. I mean I really think your likable enough.

[Hellion]

:devil Basically I loved her and her personality, oh well, I have other personal issues to take care like bills. all I care about right now is my friends and family, which I will never turn my back on. At least I am not working that bullshit job that I was at because i would have felt much worse. Just remember that Trust and respect are not ever given out, you have to earn it!

[Saephyr]

I agree with Phee...

We females can be evil and you men can sometimes duck however... I'd never changa a thing.

Your failures or let's say unsuccessful attempts only make you learn from them. No one can hurt you unless you let them sweetie. Just refuse the pain. Or ...if you accept it..learn from it right?

[Eric Cartman]

I usually dump those hoes right after i hit that shit

[xorderofchaosx]

You're a doll Crank, a rare find...if she couldn't see that, that's her problem...you'll just find someone better deserving.