Financial Status?

[Reaper]

Well, in retrospect, most of my life, I have been in the 10-30k a year position. The last 4 years (2000-2003) have been an incredible hell as I had school, mass financial debt, and apartment rental problems. I sunk as low as giving plasma basically 2 days a week for $45. I even did a stripshow for a b-day party, lmao (hey, when I was real fit). I lived on ramen and water and cheezits (yeah thats right, cheezits), but since I forced myself into a job I really didn't want, I have gone completely the opposite in financial status. After the Chapter 7 I filed before I went to trucking school, I cleared out all but my federal school loan. Now that loan is back in green status, I have a newer car, a condo apartment and all the amenities that come with it, and extra money for some little things here and there, oh and my hearse

With that said, about all the women I dated, either didn't make much money, or didn't have a job at all. I did this also while in financial hell. I made it one way or another. Preferrably I would like to have someone who made as much as I as I am a big fan of equality. I do half the work, she does half. Half work into relationships, as well as other responsibilites. But in the end, I have no qualm with it as I look for who that person is and worry about their financial status later. Because all in all, that could drastically change over the course of life, even for the better. Hell, if I love her that much, then I will do what I can to help her acheive, if that is what she wants. Most likely, she will acquire much more respect for herself and more of a positive outlook for her own future as well as ours.

In closing, sure money doesn't matter in a relationship to me, but who's to say that it won't help blossom a tight and close relationship?

[Rayne]

Well, in retrospect, most of my life, I have been in the 10-30k a year position.  The last 4 years (2000-2003) have been an incredible hell as I had school, mass financial debt, and apartment rental problems.  I sunk as low as giving plasma basically 2 days a week for $45.  I even did a stripshow for a b-day party, lmao (hey, when I was real fit).  I lived on ramen and water and cheezits (yeah thats right, cheezits), but since I forced myself into a job I really didn't want, I have gone completely the opposite in financial status.  After the Chapter 7 I filed before I went to trucking school, I cleared out all but my federal school loan.  Now that loan is back in green status, I have a newer car, a condo apartment and all the amenities that come with it, and extra money for some little things here and there, oh and my hearse  

With that said, about all the women I dated, either didn't make much money, or didn't have a job at all.  I did this also while in financial hell.  I made it one way or another.  Preferrably I would like to have someone who made as much as I as I am a big fan of equality.  I do half the work, she does half.  Half work into relationships, as well as other responsibilites.  But in the end, I have no qualm with it as I look for who that person is and worry about their financial status later.  Because all in all, that could drastically change over the course of life, even for the better.  Hell, if I love her that much, then I will do what I can to help her acheive, if that is what she wants.  Most likely, she will acquire much more respect for herself and more of a positive outlook for her own future as well as ours. 

In closing, sure money doesn't matter in a relationship to me, but who's to say that it won't help blossom a tight and close relationship?

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Wow....I feel like clapping or something.

Excellent post Reaper!

[DarkVampire]

If and when I am in a relationship, I'm not in it for the money. If she makes less than me, fine, more than me so what.