Do I need a change?

[Saephyr]

:grin OK I think I'm pretty not ugly.

i haven't been getting much NEW attention from on-lookers lately and I know my weight sucks which I have to work on daily and I hate cuz who doesn't?

Question...does my look suck?

I usually just wing it and go out. i can get myself a club skirt or some pants but I just want to be sexy and fun when I go out to dance so do I even care? Yes this is vaninty talking but hey...I am a damned spoksmodel for a company and I really need to know whats up :innocent

Maybe I just need to hid out for a while and not go to the clubs?

Don't wanna do that...

Why is it so hard to meet someone new when you're this worried about the way you look...BECAUSE I'm worried about the way I look naturally.

:woot: Ok opinions please but be kind would ya?

[Brenda Starrr]

You're gorgeous! OMG, what possesses you to think that you need a new look? Just get some green liquid eyeliner and rock on!

[Reaper]

:grin OK I think I'm pretty not ugly.

i haven't been getting much NEW attention from on-lookers lately and I know my weight sucks which I have to work on daily and I hate cuz who doesn't?

Question...does my look suck?

I usually just wing it and go out. i can get myself a club skirt or some pants but I just want to be sexy and fun when I go out to dance so do I even care? Yes this is vaninty talking but hey...I am a damned spoksmodel for a company and I really need to know whats up :innocent

Maybe I just need to hid out for a while and not go to the clubs?

Don't wanna do that...

Why is it so hard to meet someone new when you're this worried about the way you look...BECAUSE I'm worried about the way I look naturally.

:woot: Ok opinions please but be kind would ya?

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Yes. You need me. I look good on you. haha, damn that is so cheesy. Can't believe they actually use that line.

[Rayne]

Saephyr....your just fine babe! :grin

[Brenda Starrr]

Yes.  You need me.  I look good on you.  haha, damn that is so cheesy.  Can't believe they actually use that line.

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Dork.

***runs***

[Reaper]

Dork.

***runs***

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dork ( P ) Pronunciation Key (dôrk)

n.

1. Slang. A stupid, inept, or foolish person: “the stupid antics of America's favorite teen-age cartoon dorks” (Joshua Mooney).

2. Vulgar Slang. The penis.

Now which one are you calling me?!

[Brenda Starrr]

Hmmm.....

:blink

:erm

:grin

:laughing

:woot:

:whistling

I'll get back to you on that one....

[Onyx]

Why is it so hard to meet someone new when you're this worried about the way you look...BECAUSE I'm worried about the way I look naturally.

:woot: Ok opinions please but be kind would ya?

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I can't seem to ever meet you so I don't know! I think the key here is that you are thinking about this and feel like your outside isn't matching the way you want to look.

Sounds like you need something fun to change your look a bit.

(and keep in mind I am saying this without having seen you - there aren't many pics at all that I can find on here, just going by what you say you feel).

I've seen my daughter go through this. She is gorgeous, could pass for a model, but all wrapped up in that first early teen angst about looks. She can look absolutely perfect, but change one little thing (like a new nail polish) and that seems to give her the confidence to actually *see* herself as she really looks.

[Saephyr]

:whistling Oooooooooo boy!

Starr is gonna get it!

Wait...Reaper can't chase ya...................................

Oh damn he drives a truck :confused

No really.

I have the advantage of being a very nice split between my two parents who are both hot.

My problem with weight wil fix itself...the better my diseases get the more likely I will be able to workout daily...just gotta get going.

I'm saying I put on my best face and clothes and this weekend I got snubbed at least 3 times by very attractive people and then 2 men I know intimately never even gave me a 2nd glance. How awful is that? They saw u nude at 1 point in life and not even a compliment or a grab or nuthin! WTF!?

I have sush bad holiday blues and SAD I don't need to be plagued by these thoughts as well. Good GAWD

I'm going to get some damned eyeliner...fuck this :tear

[Brenda Starrr]

*hugs*

I love you!

[Melova]

I think you're gorgeous.

I would have grabbed too, had I known you would have grabbed back? :innocent

[Draco1958]

nvm

[unchaste]

Fuck, I'd do ya if I possessed the proper equipment, love.

You are ridiculously beautiful ( who wouldn't want all that hair draped over them ), so don't think that becuae you go 2 weeks without snoo snoo that you're a troll.

Maybe you & me & bean water need a threesome to cheer you two up. I seem to be the only one of us getting any lately.

[pharoh]

Babes your sweet and attractive, you have a personality that sometimes can be intimidating shy guys. Nothing against you babes, ppl are just that way. They don't know you like I do

[Saephyr]

I just wanna play nice with someone purdy :tear

[Nienna]

I would say change your hair or something but your hair is amazing sooemmm.. I donno.. we still need to make some clothes!

[bean]

Maybe you & me & bean water need a threesome to cheer you two up.

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:woot: :innocent

Saephyr, you are one saucy chick! I think the mens are intimidated by you, seriously. If you feel that you need to change something, then do it, but do it for you, not for anyone else. You kick ass just the way you are and I would hate to see that get lost in a quest for change. Not that change is bad, but make sure you are doing it for the right reasons.

If you are fine with the way you are now, then stick with it. Unfortunately there are dry spells at the club at times, it has nothing to do with you. Like I said, you are one sexy chicky!

[Saephyr]

I would say change your hair or something but your hair is amazing sooemmm.. I donno.. we still need to make some clothes!

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I wasn't sure if you were still interested hun :blushing

[Saephyr]

:woot:      :innocent

Saephyr, you are one saucy chick!  I think the mens are intimidated by you, seriously.  If you feel that you need to change something, then do it, but do it for you, not for anyone else.  You kick ass just the way you are and I would hate to see that get lost in a quest for change.  Not that change is bad, but make sure you are doing it for the right reasons.

If you are fine with the way you are now, then stick with it.  Unfortunately there are dry spells at the club at times, it has nothing to do with you.  Like I said, you are one sexy chicky!

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:tear :woot: GOSh Bean...you can say some of the sweetest things I have to try something new...just something small and then the big guns come out. =) Well...don't they usually?

[Lilith]

Fall/Winter and Holidays are the worst times for fresh romance, most who may be on there way out are Holding on untill after New Years, for obvious reasons. Many have already found there Holiday Romance in preperation......... Also many may be holding out, what to do if i start a romance now and He/she wants to Join in on My holiday Fun, do i take her to Family Functions etc...... Also many people just dont have the time right now to put effort in to a new relationship.

Now this has caused you to feel "undesirable" and of course like allot of other woman you have placed Blame on your looks which Judging by the response here is not to BLAME. U r a Smart Girl so you know you are Pretty, but now you feel Down.

When i feel this way, which i do often for several reasons, I start by pampering me.

I get a manucure or pedicure (if you cant afford it take time and do it your self) Having soft hands/feet are like secret weapons, the attention you recieve while getting them is wonderful and makes you feel like a STAR, then after ward, you have the sofest hands and cute little soft clean feet..... It makes you feel good all over. Make you feel like a LAdy which is often what we need, just to feel girly.

THe Cloths, Hmph, well for me i dont have $ to run out and buy a new outfit, but i can bet there is something in the closet (as well as yours) that you can mix and match with another item and pull of something new and exciting, gather a few girl friends, have a day to rummage and see what they come up with if you are out of ideas....... This can often bring new light to your siutation, instead of standing atthe clsoet saying i have nothing new and sexy to wear Create somethng new and sexy from thing you alreayd own, this wya you stay true to you and your style but still get variety and NEW.

I also look at changing up my make up, experient with what you have and try difrent colors, add accent with your eye liner around your eyes, (lestat usually does this for me, but he will add swirlies, ankhs etc.......) In this Dept I would ask Brenda For advice on the right Makeup changes, perhaps ask for color idea to compliment your natural color and tones. But have fun with it.

Lastly i would probally not change you hair Length, it is so hard to get back if you dont like it short, but i might look in to adding highlights, maybe a slight color change...... only if you feel your hair is part of the "problem".........

I have never seen you so i cant say exactly what might help or not, but i know when i feel down n unpretty or what ever, i try the above. Weather or not it actually makes me More pretty or not it helps with my Mood, which is probaly the Main Thing i needed in the first place.

Just my thoughts and things i do for me, hope you find some thing to help out.

[Homicidalheathen]

No it does not suck. However, I think you would look good as a redhead. Not some brassy, orange or bright scary, but the auburn kind. Dark and alluring. Now Even Borics has shades EQ but you can order it online too. It is deposit only (no damage!) and covers grey. I love the stuff! It feels like conditioner and washes out eventually.

Just get a Dark auburn eyebrow pencil and shave down there and your ready to go!

[Homicidalheathen]

By the way, we all go through dry spells. I am just coming out of one where I was dumped, felt old.....fat.....ugly.....(he insulted me everyday)

But now lots of hotties like me. I think when you feel down it shows. When you feel good about yourself you radiate confidence and that is what draws worthy people to you.

Fuck the assholes that don't like you, they don't know what they are missing! Or cannot handle the heat!

[saechalyn]

I don't think there's anything wrong with your look at all! You are teh hawtness, and your hair is amazing! Getting attention has to do with lots of factors~

When you feel good about yourself you radiate confidence and that is what draws worthy people to you.

Fuck yes! It's all in your approach.

[Rayne]

  When you feel good about yourself you radiate confidence and that is what draws worthy people to you.

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Indeed! :grin

[Jarodaka]

Change your look, Saephyr. I mean, you can always change it back, right?