Dream Interpretation

[fallennon]

To make this short, last night I had a strange dream. Here it goes:

I was in a hotel having sex with a girl from work who I'm not really attracted to. My son's father came in and yelled at me because we broke his bed. We went downstairs to a funeral where his girlfriend started yelling at me for talking to him. I threw a small statue at her. She threw a HUGE statue of the virgin mary at me. Then threw the urn full of ashes at me. What I threw hit her in the face, what she threw went two feet in front of me and two feet to the left of me. I felt terrible for fighting at the funeral, but I then beat the shit out of her. I don't know who was dead, but it was someone that I loved and cared about because I was sad. I went back up to my room to wait for the girl I was sleeping with and fell asleep in my dream. I then heard her knock and kept trying to wake myself up in the dream to let her in the room. I succeeded in waking my self up for real and actually continued to hear the knocking for about 30 secs even though no one was knocking and I was wide awake.

This dream is strange to me for three reasons:

1. I never have sex dreams

2. When I dream of violence I NEVER actually get to hurt someone it's always me trying and not succeeding

3. I have never dreampt of death in that manner.

If anyone can help me interpert this I would really appreciate it. It's bugging me a lot. Thanks.

[Ginevra]

To state up front, I am NOT a dream interpreter in ANY sense of the word. That said. . . . .

After reading some of your other threads, Fallenon, it would seem to me that the funeral could be the passing of your relationship(s) that were dear to you, but yet you realise it's over with. The fighting with the woman at the funeral could easily be interpreted as your friend's GF that he went back to and you're subconciously fighting it even though on a concious level, you know there's nothing you can do.

For the sleeping with a girl, it could be you subconcious telling you what others on DGN have been saying . . . . .don't worry about it for right now. When a relationship comes along that is absolutely right for you, you WILL know about it. I usually make it a point to not know people's sexual preferences; whatever they do is their own business. But ask yourself: If a female presented herself in such a way that you might imagine yourself in a relationship with her, would you shoo it away because it would be a lesbian relationship or would you consider it? No need to answer that here if you don't care to but it might be something to think about.

[Marblez]

Consider the possibility that you are tempted to have sex with the girl from work (or insert other undesireable sex) to fill the void of not having him. At the end of the dream, you did not wake up and answer the door. Possibly meaning that you don't want/need that pacifier any longer.

[JaneDead]

i agree with what was said up there ^

i think the virgin mary part is interesting.

[i want to add that last night i had a dream my dad died and i didn't wake up in time for his funeral. i slept through it and then just was with my family at the house my grandma lived in before she died. that grandma was also alive in my dream. i also kept trying to call my ex to tell him but i could not get my phone to work or i kept putting in the wrong numbers. death dreams are always damn freaky.]

[fallennon]

Very good point Marblez! I thought about this as well, the only strange part about all of this is that I CANNOT have sex. I have been unable to be physical with anyone but my ex. I have absoultely NO DESIRE to have sex with anyone. I start to become attracted to someone for ten minutes, but when it comes down to it, I back out and lose attractive as soon as anything turns physical. There was only one person that I was able to sleep with and that was the ex I had after him. And since then I have been celibate save for last weekend when I slept with my ex. Go figure. Maybe it means I need to have sex...LOL

Ginny - I would not turn away from a relationship with a female by any means. At this point I would try anything - LOL. BUT I found this strange because I am in NO WAY attracted to this girl at all. I like her, she is a friend of mine, but I have no physical attraction to her. This is why I am so confused. :dizzy: