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Dirtywhispers

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I already told you what I thought of him. I can't tell you anymore.

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I know how dissapointed you are in me MIkki but I'm doin my best, I havent gone back over there and I havent answered any of his calls, his friend is gonna get him out of the apartment for me so I can get all my stuff and I dont have to deal with him.

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I know how dissapointed you are in me MIkki but I'm doin my best, I havent gone back over there and I havent answered any of his calls, his friend is gonna get him out of the apartment for me so I can get all my stuff and I dont have to deal with him.

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DONT GO OVER ALONE!!! take lots of support with you.. if you need someone .. Ill go with you, just DONT go alone Jen.

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:devil This is why my parents are divorced,seeing my old man beat the crap oout of my mom is something that I prefer not to remember.They have been divorced for 30 years,my advice,if counciling does not work,then get out and start a new life. This is all I can say.I hope it gets better for you.

I just know my mother brought us up,never to hit a lady,and I am 100% against anyone who does this crap.

Of some of the women that I have gone out with in the far past,there were times I was not in a good mood at all.But no matter what I could never hit a lady,now matter how pissed I get.

I would rather go somewhere,and bust a few beer bottles against a brick wall.

I never followed in my dads footsteps and I never will,EVER!

Both me and my older brother and sister,knew better than to be disrespectfull like that.and we stick with it.

Considering,none of us really talk to our father much at all anymore,due to he's always negative and never wants anything to do with us at all.

But DW please look at your options and do whats best,so you are never hurt again.

Take care. :cheerful

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I know you probably dont want to hear this...but it's only going to get better if you leave him...thats what happened with my mom...and my daughters mother,dania, was really violent towards me...and I refused to hit her back...and nothing got better to i left her...and my grandma was really abusive to my grandpa till she died...those are 3 examples...I know its kinda harsh and I apologize...but when I hear about this stuff it really pisses me off...and the fact that you still wanna try to work it out with him shows ur dedication and compassion...you can do better...Im sorry if this hurts you to read...again I apologize...i hope things go better for you regardless of ur choice...

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I hate to pull from my experiences, because I try to be a private person...but I know where you are coming from in more ways than one. My father and mother have been married almost 50 years now...and he beat her ass on a daily basis. Sometimes he still does. She thought it would get better, and she kept forgiving. I spent a childhood hiding under beds and slipping out of windows to get away from it. One day you will want to have kids with this man. Those kids may end up in that same position. Trust me when I say this is not a position to ever want to be in. Growing up under those circumstances was difficult. Later on in life I dated someone that hit me. He did it just once, and I left. I didnt want the cycle to repeat. I know of many resources and support groups if you ever want to talk. Just remember that settling for anything less than you deserve is just that...settling.

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Definitely true, and once you find out how good it is to have a relationship where you get as much as you give, you'll never want to go back to an abusive one.

That was some awesome advice Darkchylde.

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Hehe, I try my best sometimes :happy:

Wow I cant believe that vcame out of your mouth. Seriously though thank you all for your support, it means alot to me.

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Hey not a problem, you be surprised whut I've been through as a kid. I just hope you dont end up in worse case's like others I've seen in the past.

Can I just say that this is excellent advice? DC, I'm really, really impressed.

Please Jen....

You don't see a single person here that's saying "Stay! He's worth it." I was in your shoes, but in a different way. And I thought that I could fix him. I couldn't. You can't. Please, walk away.

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Exactly, no one here doesnt want to see you get hurt. We all know you can find better yet desserve it. We all desserve to be treated good equally.

See brenda, this is whut happens when im hooked on phonics :woot:

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Get a cast iron skillet and slap him around when he goes to sleep and see how he likes the feelings of helplessness, pain, being disrespected, unappreciated, literally damaged, emotionally scarred, pissed off, and then find out if the jury is available from the Bobbit case and ask them to volunteer to be willing to see if the Lorena Bobbit defense would work for you in the State of Michigan.

Any questions?

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I'm not MAN bashing...if a chick did it I'd advise the same damn thing except since she has no penis.. apply a large dildo up her butt with epoxy and let her explain THAT in the E.R.

Can't ya tell I hate people who hit?

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Get a cast iron skillet and slap him around when he goes to sleep and see how he likes the feelings of helplessness, pain, being disrespected, unappreciated, literally damaged, emotionally scarred, pissed off, and then find out if the jury is available from the Bobbit case and ask them to volunteer to be willing to see if the Lorena Bobbit defense would work for you in the State of Michigan.

  Any questions?

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I'm not MAN bashing...if a chick did it I'd advise the same damn thing except since she has no penis.. apply a large dildo up her butt with epoxy and let her explain THAT in the E.R.

  Can't ya tell I hate people who hit?

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:devil Have you ever seen the Movie,"The Burning Bed"?

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Hehe, I try my best sometimes :happy:

Hey not a problem, you be surprised whut I've been through as a kid. I just hope you dont end up in worse case's like others I've seen in the past.

Exactly, no one here doesnt want to see you get hurt. We all know you can find better yet desserve it. We all desserve to be treated good equally.

See brenda, this is whut happens when im hooked on phonics :woot:

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You know I love you, DC.

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Well I talked to his sister yesterday and she's gonna help me get the rest of my stuff out of his apartment and then I wont have anything to do with him anymore. It'll be hard but with your guys' support I can do it.

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Good for you, Jen. You're strong, and you have friends to back you up. Be safe.

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You know I love you, DC.

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Back at'cha brenda.

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Well I talked to his sister yesterday and she's gonna help me get the rest of my stuff out of his apartment and then I wont have anything to do with him anymore. It'll be hard but with your guys' support I can do it.

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You've just earned my respect on that. Im really impressed jen!! You've broked the cycle and its rare that anyone does. Dont let him bring you down and if he try's, let him know that he's facing an army. :wink

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As said before, stay safe, go with a lot of friends. If he tries anything, even calling you and leaving messages. Start a paper trail. It will show that you're not afraid of taking action.

People like this work on fear. If he sees that you're not backing down it might make him back off faster and move on.

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