Letter to the Judge and the Attorney

[FarrIL]

This is a letter to the judge and the attorney inf avour of my sister Jeri as she, hopefully, finishes her long and overly-extended custody battle with her Ex husband, for my nephew Spencer II.

Since I wont be in attendance at the court hearing, I've written a letter, expressing my opinion towards the whol scenario and why I feel my sister deserves full-blown custody, no ifs, ands, or buts about it.

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To whom it may concern:

When Jeri moved away to marry Spencer , I thought, in my young mind, that this was going to be a happily-ever-after story. They would get married, have a family and live happily together till the end of their days.

I was sadly mistaken. And over the past two years, this has been made more evident…. With each passing day. Allow me to present my overall opinion of this situation.

Jeri is a very dedicated woman. Dedicated to her job, and more importantly, dedicated to her son. Her son has always come first in her life. If she was able to provide for her son, Spencer Lewis Prezioso II, then she was a happy mother, and sister to me. Even when I was growing up, she was dedicated with helping our mother with the chores. While our mother cooked, Jeri made sure I was taken care of and fed. A “mother hen”, if you will.

Ever since little Spencer was born, I have seen no signs of mistreatment or danger, coming from Jeri. She took care of him, fed him when he was hungry, changed him when he had a dirty diaper. Jeri was a good stay-at-home mother, and she has stuck true to her ways, even to this day. Her son is healthy, happy and just an all-around wonderful little boy. And, for his age, he is highly intelligent.

Guess who we all have to thank for that. None other than Miss Jeri herself. It was Jeri who taught Spencer the things he knows. It was Jeri who made sure he knew his right from wrong. It was all Jeri. ALL Jeri.

Where was Big Spencer when all this was taking place? Away on business. Working for Northwest Airlines. Hardly present in his son’s life. Ever. And now he expects he’s going to take Jeri’s son away from her, and play the ‘good daddy’ when he was never there to begin with? I beg to differ, as I strongly believe that he does not deserve any form of custody over his son. Jeri, in my honest opinion, deserves full custody. Period. End of discussion.

We have heard enough updates on this little scenario, and from what I’ve caught of it, I am quite tired of hearing how Spencer is trying to double-cross Jeri, and how he’s trying to come up with new ways to take her son away from her. I am absolutely tired of it, and I strongly feel this whole thing must come to an abrupt stop. And it goes beyond being a ‘good parent”.

Sheila, Spencer’s new wife, mistreats little Spencer. While she dotes on her own kids, little Spencer is shut in his bedroom. Never paid attention to. And because Daddy is never there, the only attention, the only positive attention he gets is from Jeri. The rest? It’s all negative and it’s beginning to show what kind of toll it’s taking on my nephew. And the toll it’s taking has me worried that his life is going to be hell, at least when he’s under his father’s roof. The neglect that he suffers when he’s just staying the night at Sheila and Spencer’s house is bad enough. Please, take a moment to think about that’ll affect him in the long run. Living under that roof, day by day, night after night…. I can see Little Spencer’s grades failing, just as a start. His outlook on life, even at a young age, will change drastically.

Not with Jeri. Jeri has shown him nothing but love and compassion. She shows him more than what Spencer and Sheila could even dream about, if they ever dream of giving little Spencer a good life at all. I’m sorry, but coming from Spencer and Sheila, I see no signs of a good life meant for little Spencer. Jeri, on the other hand, well, I think we’ve seen how well she can raise a child.

Jeri is a good mother, a good parent… and I believe she deserves full custody of Little Spencer. For his sake. If there’s a person who’s tough enough, good enough, positive enough and compassionate enough to raise that boy well and healthy, it’s my sister, Jeri.

Thank you for your time,

~~Tara Jueckstock.

[Brenda Starrr]

You go, girl.

[Homicidalheathen]

VERY well written, I think it will help for sure.

[Rayne]

That is awesome.

I'm in a similar situation as your sister.

[FarrIL]

Thanks for the support. =3

I cant be there when she goes to court, but I'm giving her my support.

And I know she needs it.

[Msterbeau]

If Spencer isn't in the house to be with his son, what's the point???? Normally I'd say both parents deserve equal custody, but if they ignore or aren't present during the time they have the child, I have to agree that that's not in the child's best interest to be there. What's just as sad is that his new wife can't treat him equally to her own children. Cinderella anyone?

I hope she get's custody Tara.

[FarrIL]

I hope she get's custody Tara.

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Marc, you are one of many.

Everyone in the family is rooting for Jeri. Here's hoping that the majority rules and judge and attorney finally fess up.