I want everyone's opinion

[Homicidalheathen]

Allot of people are sick enough to get disabliity but don't qualify.....doesn't mean your faking pain. You say your in pain, I believe you. I don't know you well enough not too.

[phee]

I don't know you well enough to comment

[wheresmypiggy]

The most ironic thing here?? I've said this before: A hysterectomy will pretty much cure both me and Cat.. and they won't give it to either of us. Why? We have no children. They fail to recall the disease also basically makes un infertile. How's that for stupidity??

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On birth control since age 12. If I wanted children had to have them by age 16. Can't carry a child to full term only 3 months. There is supposed to be another type of surgery you can get that basically scrapes your uteran wall. Very painful but supposed to be effefctive.

[saechalyn]

I don't know you well enough to comment

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I don't either, doll. I'm posting because you asked me to but I really can't say. From my interactions with you no I wouldn't say you're a hypochondriac. Do you want attention? Of course, and so do I and so does everyone. This post is asking for attention, as is every post. There's nothing wrong with that. Do you exaggerate to get more attention? Not that I see, but that is from my limited perspective.

People should understand that with any chronic condition some days are better than others. Out of context it might seem odd that you can dance all night one day and barely be able to move another day, but with chronic conditions that is the way it goes.

Bear in mind that while this person might be someone you consider a good friend, if they are not seeing you in person often they are not getting an accurate firsthand picture of how you life your life.

[Blackmail]

I think you're faking.

but then again, I've never met you and I am basing that on absolutely nothing.

Faker.

Just kidding.

Maybe.

[Shade Everdark]

I'd have to say no, based on what conversations we've had.

Likely I'm more of a hypochondriac than you are, and I'm not much of one.

[Guest Megalicious]

The most ironic thing here?? I've said this before: A hysterectomy will pretty much cure both me and Cat.. and they won't give it to either of us. Why? We have no children. They fail to recall the disease also basically makes un infertile. How's that for stupidity??

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That is just awful! The only reason is because you don't have children yet? Yet it make you infertile .. that is just the stupidest thing I have ever heard! I mean has every doctor you've went to told you this? I mean there must be one doctor out there with a brain ..... :doh

[Msterbeau]

I had an opinion once. It was great.

[bean]

From my interactions with you no I wouldn't say you're a hypochondriac.  Do you want attention?  Of course, and so do I and so does everyone.  This post is asking for attention, as is every post.  There's nothing wrong with that. 

People should understand that with any chronic condition some days are better than others.  Out of context it might seem odd that you can dance all night one day and barely be able to move another day, but with chronic conditions that is the way it goes. 

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Exactly.

You're not a hypochondriac, at all. I've been around you/talked to you online when you've been in pain - it's no fucking joke, and I worry about you. *hugs*

[Draco1958]

Cat, we've only met twice however I feel I should say something. Both times we met were at CC and I can saw that 1. you were not dancing around, 2. you stayed mostly in one place, didn't move around alot. You told me the basics of what you were going through and let me know if you were grumpy with me to not take it personal, that it meant you were hurting. I saw the look in your eyes, you were putting on a smile and being friendly but your eyes showed the pain when it would flare up. I do believe you are hurting. I do believe you have good days and bad days. I have a friend with fibro and I know what it does to her. So I have a decent idea of what it is doing to you. I wish you the best and will be there for you in whatever capacity I can. Your friend who is doubting you is not a friend, especially if that friend has seen you hurting before.

[Hellion]

:cheerful IMO you are not.

[wheresmypiggy]

I don't know you well enough to know whether or not you are one.

Whether or not you are one is irrelevant. You have friends who care about you and when you say you are in pain they lend their love, friendship, and help.

[Saephyr]

WOW Draco...I never knew I bummed you out. =( Hope you understood and sounds like you did

I know my pal loves me guys and he just blew up but I just had to really ask that question. I know we all talk in whispers about each other even if we do care, like any family.

I don't mind if someone has that opinion as long as they don't fire it at me like a bullet when I'm down already :doh

Words also got VERY personal in the heat of things. Nerves got tapped at that had nothing to do with anything and it got really petty and stupid. I just shut up myself but my bud needed a huge venting I guess so I just hope it's over and done with. I still agree with something I heard said in a play once "Don't speak in raised voices. Walk away before you say something you will regret forever." Wise words and apparently very true about 99.44% true.

I was too damn weird about taking my dog in for day surgery today with all this dark weather and dark mood stuff happening No way I could handle him having something go wrong when they put hm under and then I totally flip me lid right. Best to wait a few days when his mum isn't a trainwreck of emotional sludge.

I need to cash in 1 of my rubdowns from Styx...wonder where he's hidin' at.

I gotta ride this storm out along with a ton more I'm sure, as long as it doesn't all become buried treasure without any friendship left after all is said I'll be happy. People should be able to argue or bicker w/o just telling the other one to piss off 4ever.. that's silly. *sigh* :blink

WHERE IS BUGS BUNNY WHEN YOU NEED HIM THE MOST...AND THE REST OF THOSE KOOKS. fOGGY, GOSSAMER, TAZ, MARC ANTHONY AND THE OTHER ONES THAT MAKE ME WIZZ MYSELF.

[Saephyr]

I don't know you well enough to know whether or not you are one.

Whether or not you are one is irrelevant. You have friends who care about you and when you say you are in pain they lend their love, friendship, and help.

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How completely simple is that :blink :confused :doh

Thank you for laying that out cutie pie

[Draco1958]

WOW Draco...I never knew I bummed you out.  =( Hope you understood and sounds like you did

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Sweetie, you didn't bum me out. I understood. I just wished I could have done something to help, even if for just a few minutes. Actually I found it nice that you were straight up with me. I appreciate that.

:grin

[Saephyr]

Thank you everyone for making me feel like I haven't gone totally loon!

Just a minor setbeack I go through every 6 months or so with humans who try to know all the answers. It upsets them that they don't and then I'm the one who's some type of liar or criminal

+++++++++++++++=UPDATE++++++++++++++++++

My bud and I are friends again and I have said that if he ever stated that I was a junkie or a liar again that our friendship would be ended...but he won't.

Nobody means to say awful things that hurt that bad and if they do...toss 'em is my experience.

I deem this thread closed

[BrassFusion]

*Jacks the closed thread just to be difficult! HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!*

[Saephyr]

hilarious

[BrassFusion]

that was sarcasm, wasn't it?

[creatureofthenyte]

thats affirmative, yah !